Culture
A Stage for Violence? South Africa's Response to Chris Brown’s Upcoming Concert
3 weeks ago
Chris Brown is coming to South Africa. Let's sit down and talk about it. The Live in Johannesburg, Breezy in South Africa event, presented by Big Concerts and Y, will be held on Saturday and Sunday, December 14 & 15, 2024, at Johannesburg's infamous FNB Stadium, Africa's largest stadium. This will be Brown's first time…
Culture
My unique Heritage Day
3 months ago
South Africa is a rich and diverse land, with many cultures making up our beautiful rainbow nation. Heritage Day, commemorated on 24 September each year, is a perfect way to celebrate the wealth of customs and cultures of our people. Each year, South Africans from all walks of life enjoy the public holiday by dressing…
Culture
TikTok Love Tests: More Harmful Than Helpful?
6 months ago
Do you ever question if your partner truly loves you? In the past year or so, there has been a massive increase in TikTok trends that "pretend" to "test" a partner's devotion or the quality of a couple's relationship. Generally, TikTok relationship tests are done with their partner while making a video and posting the…
Culture
Content Copycat: The Culinary Clash Between Chefs Onezwa Mbola and Nara Smith
6 months ago
TikTok and Twitter have been burning for the last week or so with absolute drama, remarks, and FIRE because of South African Eastern Cape-based chef and content creator Onezwa Mbola and US-based chef, model and content creator Nara Smith. Smith is a Lesotho-German fashion model who was born in Bloemfontein. Both chefs have amassed sizable…
Culture
Good Teacher Bad Teacher
6 months ago
Have you ever encountered a lecturer or teacher who was so unkind that the mere thought of seeing them during class would give you anxiety? Have you ever shaped your opinion of your capabilities and how your educator perceived you? Have you ever been so inspired to excel at your studies and future career milestones…
Culture
Girlfriend Proposals: Love Upgrade or Total Hype?
7 months ago
In the spotlight of social media, where every photo and story is broadcasted to the masses, there's a fresh trend on the block—girlfriend proposals. Yep, you heard that right. Proposals aren't just for popping the big marriage question anymore; they've stylishly slid into the dating scene, igniting all kinds of buzz about their meaning and…
Culture
Claremon-Mobri-Kaap!
8 months ago
Step into the bustling streets of Cape Town, and you're stepping into a world where the taxi culture isn't just transportation; it's the city's lifeblood, an ode to the spirit of its people. For those setting foot in the Mother City for the first time, be prepared for an immersive experience, a dive into the…
Culture
Amapiano: From South African Beats to Global Debates
8 months ago
The main event at the 2024 Africa Cup of Nations wasn't the match between the South African and Nigerian teams; the real showdown occurred on Twitter with the Amapiano wars between South Africans and Nigerians. Not me logging in after the match and seeing a tweet saying, "Dear South Africans, Amapiano belongs to Nigerians now"…
Culture
Situationships
9 months ago
“We’re seeing each other but we’re not ‘together’.” “We don’t like labels, but we’re definitely more than friends with benefits.” “There’s an emotional connection but I don’t know where I stand or how to introduce them to my friends.” If you’ve ever said or heard any of these phrases uttered before, you’ve likely either been…
Culture
Echoes Through Time
9 months ago
At the core of oral tradition is the goal of preservation. It is why, through the power of our voice and gestures, we tell stories of the past to preserve our cultures, identities, and customs and pass them on from one generation to the next. It is important to acknowledge and examine how storytelling and…
Culture
Whispers from kwaGogo: The Magic of Oral Storytelling
9 months ago
Picture this scene: You're 5 or 6 years old and visiting kwaGogo for the holidays. All your cousins and siblings are there, and you're seated on the dining room floor waiting for breakfast or lunch to be served. UGogo and your Aunt arrive and give you all a meal and promises that if you finish…
Culture
From Maan Kyking to Boeber Night
10 months ago
Ramadaan is around the corner, and Muslims worldwide are preparing for the auspiciousness of this wonderful month. With Muslims following the lunar calendar, Ramadaan is the ninth month of the Islamic year, with its commencement moving forward by eleven days annually. Ramadaan is an important month for Muslims because it was during this period, 1445…
Culture
Rhythms of Unity
10 months ago
While travelling to school on the busy roads of Cape Town, navigating the sea of taxis, buses and the occasional cyclist riding the wave of early morning traffic, you may see the countless posters hung up. Registreer en Stem! Bhalisa, away vote! Register and Vote! As we near thirty years of democracy, one cannot help…
Culture
Echoes of Identity: Embracing Our Mother Tongues
10 months ago
International Mother Language Day always strikes a deep chord with me. It's a day that celebrates the rich tapestry of languages that form the very backbone of our diverse cultures and identities. Let me share a bit about how this day came into being and why it resonates so profoundly with me as a Black…
Culture
Love in the Digital Age: Unpacking Valentine's Day 2024
10 months ago
It's that time of the year again when love seems to be in the air, and every storefront is decked out in red and pink. But as we dive into the heart of February, let's hit pause and ask ourselves: is Valentine's Day still relevant for us, the young and restless? Should we even contemplate…
Culture
What the heck, Grammys?
11 months ago
We spoke about snubs at the Oscars, and next up, we have snubs at the Grammys! If you haven't seen it yet, on Sunday, during his acceptance speech for the Dr Dre Global Impact Award at the Grammys, Jay-Z stood on business and called the Recording Academy out for not giving his wife credit where…
Culture
Barbie at the Oscars: Feminism or Faux-Pas?
11 months ago
Barbie has made headlines again. The lack of recognition of the work of Greta Gerwig and Margot Robbie in the Director and Best Actress category nominations for the film Barbie at the upcoming 96th Oscar Academy Awards has caused an uproar with the internet regarding it as 'anti-feminist'. However, the nomination of their co-star, America…
Culture
Netflix Dreams
11 months ago
Hailing from Samora Machel in Phillipi, 24-year-old performer Bonani Ngamlane proves that dreams come true with his inspirational journey that started from his adolescent dreams in Samora and took him to the world with his role as Qhawe Jobodwana, a football team member in The Queenstown Kings, which premiered on the 17th of November on…
Culture
Afriyanos: Bringing Afrikaans and Amapiano Together
12 months ago
Amapiano is one of the most popular homegrown music genres, with some of the biggest songs in South Africa. DJs like Kabza de Small, DJ Maphorisa, Uncle Waffles and many others have taken the sound internationally, where international demand for the genre keeps increasing. With its origins in kwaito, house, hip-hop, R&B and jazz, amapiano…
Culture
'Tis the season for seven colours and choices assorted!
a year ago
The festive season is here and is well on the way. *cues* It's the most beautiful time of the year. There is not one mall and store I've entered that is not filled with large Christmas trees decorated with shiny balls and ornaments. Traditionally, Christmas is a Christian holiday that commemorates the birth of Jesus.…
Culture
Summer Reads: Your No-Homework, All-Play Booklist
a year ago
Ready to turn the page on school and work stress and soak up the sun? Whether you're lounging under the cool shade of a tree or chilling beachside with the ocean breeze, summer's the perfect backdrop for getting lost in a book. In this post, I’ve got the ultimate summer reading list just for you.…
Culture
Less or more sex for Gen Z?
a year ago
For a generation that is so sexually liberated and in tune with existing spectrums of gender, it's been interesting to read that Gen Z isn't quite jiggy with the idea of putting sexual ideas into practice. I mean, in a fast-paced world where we have limitless access to literally everything - social media, television shows…
Culture
Cape Malay meets Xhosa love
a year ago
I am in a loving interracial relationship with a Xhosa man whom I love dearly. I’m happy, and so is he, so why does the world seem to have a problem with us? These are the melancholy thoughts I have regularly as my partner and I walk in a mall or enjoy a picnic on…
Culture
Art Speaks: Voices from the Rubble
a year ago
During my recent visit to the Constitutional Court in Hillbrow, I encountered a powerful testament to the role of art in championing justice and peace. Among the standout pieces was Pitika Ntuli's bone sculpture, "Gaza: Lest We Forget" (2015). This artwork, initially understated, unravels a compelling narrative advocating for peace and solidarity with Palestinians amidst…
Culture
The Role of Women in Ulwaluko (Initiation)
a year ago
In the IsiXhosa culture, the passage to manhood is through the traditional process of Ulwaluko/Ukoluka (initiation) for young boys. The duties associated with the rites of this passage are divided between men and women in families, with men entrusted with governing the whole process from start to end while women are left out. While the…
Culture
Raising voices, dropping sticks
a year ago
“My teacher hit me with the wooden part of a blackboard duster behind my ear. I started bleeding and blood got onto my white shirt. Teachers hit all the time in my school. We are hit for being late for school, late for class. We are hit for making noise and being quiet when asked…
Culture
Are young people ditching the altar for good?
a year ago
Marriage is not something that I witnessed happening a lot in my family. Most of our family households are led by unmarried women. And seeing women lead so powerfully and make it look effortless influenced my view on marriage and whether I need it for myself. These women know how to fix appliances when they…
Culture
Tyla to the world
a year ago
“Make me sweat, make me hotter, make me lose my breath, make me water"-this catchy line from Tyla’s “Water” is a hit everywhere, and young people can’t help but sing and dance along. It’s not often a song comes around that gets everyone feeling happy and united, just like “Jerusalema” did a while back. Now,…
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Get to know the duo behind Matric Live!
7 months ago
Matric Live, is the flagship product of SAADC (Pty)ltd, an EdTech-focused software startup founded by Lesego Finger and later joined by Kagisho Masae. The company is on a mission to level the playing field for under-resourced children in South Africa. Finger's inspiration for starting an EdTech company came when he finished his final (Matric) year…
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Why we dream
a year ago
Have you ever woken up in the morning after the most perfect date night on top of the Eiffel Tower only to become disappointed to realize it was just another dream? Or perhaps you’ve experienced the reverse, waking up in the middle of the night with your heart thumping and sheets wet with sweat, only…
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Did You Know? Jay-Z is Hip-Hop's first billionaire
a year ago
From a controversial past, to releasing multi-platinum albums, winning multiple awards and marrying Beyonce, Jay-Z can now add being a billionaire to his ever growing list of achievements. Shawn Corey Carter, known by his stage name ‘Jay-Z’ has officially become a billionaire, according to an article by Forbes magazine. Jay-Z grew up in the Marcy…
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In A Pickle: The Fascinating History of Cape Town's Beloved Pickled Fish Dish
2 years ago
Picklefish, a beloved dish in the Cape for Good Friday, has a long and fascinating history. As the name suggests, pickled fish combines fish and spices, creating a unique and flavourful dish. But where did this iconic dish originate, and how did it become a staple of Cape cuisine? From its humble beginnings in the…
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Rev Up Your Confidence: Navigating the World of Driving Lessons and Tests
2 years ago
Have you seen that post on social media that says, "I'm not sure who needs to hear this but get your driver's license"? If not, let me be the one to tell you that getting your driver's license is a game-changer! It gives you the freedom to go anywhere you want and do anything you've…
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A parasocial relationship: BTS and Army
2 years ago
The danger of being a fan, no matter what type, has to be the relationship they think they have with the person they look up to. This is how parasocial relationships develop, especially during these times of social media, where so much information is publicly available. According to the Find-a-Psychologist website, parasocial relationships are one-sided,…
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Why Your Favourite Foods Are Going Extinct
2 years ago
Global rising temperatures are making food more difficult to grow. Some foods disappearing due to climate change include coffee, chocolate, wine, and almonds. Even staples like rice, corn, chickpeas, beans, and wheat are being impacted. Foods Impacted Coffee will need to be grown further north as higher temperatures in the tropics have  led to more…
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Yay or nay: Making friends online
2 years ago
Making friends in public spaces can be tricky if you are socially awkward. It can feel easier making friends online. Many people these days have formed friendships with people from all walks of life that they have never met before that don't require awkward small talk.  'Looking for friendships in hopeless place…' Siphesihle (23) met…
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Christmas Traditions and Origins
2 years ago
"Maybe Christmas doesn’t come from a store… maybe Christmas means a little bit more." – Dr Seuss Christmas is almost here, and I’m sure some of you cannot wait. Christmas festivities bring along a lot of fun and cheerfulness, and we’re all here for that. Along with all the good food and fun times, have…
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The dying star
2 years ago
The year 2022 is coming to an end in a month, and the festive season always brings a time of reflection. The highs, the lows and the gutters of the year. What we did wrong, what we could change and what we hope to bring into a new year.  It is also a reminder that…
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Vegan vs Carnivore diet
2 years ago
The modern world is changing, especially when it comes to what we consume on a daily basis. People are opting for organic options or, even more so, for options that would personally improve their health. Vegan diet I’m sure you’ve heard of a vegan diet before; the diet where you only eat plant-based foods. So…
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You can advance literacy through sport
2 years ago
Fat Cats Book Club is a Joburg-based book club whose members are mostly recreational athletes. The book club has 35 core members based in different provinces around the country. It has been running for five years and boasts a number of socially-impactful initiatives. Most close to my heart is the recent memorial run done in…
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Cause of death: Cancer
2 years ago
Did you know that cancer is the leading cause of death globally? Statista states that lung cancer caused 1.79 million deaths worldwide in 2020. The second most deadly form of cancer is colon cancer, followed by stomach and liver cancer. What is cancer? According to an article by Healthline, cancer is a group of diseases…
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Africa Every Day
2 years ago
The book Africa Every Day: Fun, Leisure, and Expressive Culture on the Continent, published by Ohio University Press, shows the people of the mother continent going about their lives, in both ordinary and festive ways. Here we interview award-winning African-American author Kemi Balogun - co-editor - about what motivated the project.  What inspired the creation…
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We need to eat!
2 years ago
Food is a fundamental human right. No person should ever have to go a day without access to healthy, nutritious meals. But we all know this is not the case and that there is a lot to do to reach the United Nation’s Sustainable Development Goal of “zero hunger” by 2030.  Human beings evolved to…
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Facts about Alzheimer's and dementia.
2 years ago
Do you have someone in your family or in your community who has something called dementia? Some people also call it Alzheimer's disease, one of the many types of dementia. Lots of people know someone who has this problem. If you know someone who has dementia: They may act or talk funny sometimes They may…
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Elizabeth Holmes – The lies that made her
2 years ago
Imagine a world where with one prick of a finger, followed by a drop of blood, analysed by a tiny little machine, you’d be able to find out whether you suffer from any medical conditions in an instant, so to speak. Sounds like a far-off dream, doesn’t it? Well, one woman, Elizabeth Holmes, thought she…
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isiXhosa names for the months of the year
2 years ago
Before the arrival of Europeans, and modern scientific knowledge, Africans used their indigenous knowledge, gained over thousands of years, to navigate their existence. Astrology and the study of nature have always been part of us.  Did you know what the seasons and months are called in isiXhosa; and why? There are four seasons in a…
Digital Literacy
My AI is thirsty
a week ago
From TikTok recommendations to chatbots answering your questions, AI is everywhere. While it’s super useful and exciting, it’s also important to understand the resources AI needs to run—and how that affects the environment.   AI needs space to live—big spaces called data centers. These are giant warehouses full of computers storing and processing information. But…
Digital Literacy
Turning Pages with Your Ears
3 months ago
In recent years, the world of reading has changed. Where once physical books were the dominant medium, audiobooks are now rapidly becoming the go-to choice for many. This shift from the traditional to the auditory is more than a trend—it reflects our fast-paced, multitasking world. But what about audiobooks makes them so appealing, and could…
Digital Literacy
AI in Africa
3 months ago
Artificial intelligence has grown immensely popular in the last few years, heralded as both the threat to our humanity and the answer to our most basic problems. But is it truly here to solve our issues, or is the hype clouding our judgement? Narratives surrounding this technology are threefold. Firstly, AI is posed as a…
Foodie
From Bubble tea to Corn dogs
2 years ago
Have you noticed how Korean culture is everywhere right now? From K-Pop to skincare, it seems like everyone is obsessed with all things Korean. So, I decided to jump on the bandwagon and try some popular Korean food to see if the hype is real. Now, let me tell you, Korean food is not for…
Foodie
Owami Mhlongo: Putting your heart on a plate
2 years ago
Twenty-year-old Owami Mhlongo grew up in Pinetown KZN. She describes her childhood as having been “rocky” and this resulted in her spending a lot of time with her aunt and grandmother. It is from here though that she traces her love of food.  Now a practitioner in a fine-dining establishment, her earliest food memories are…
Foodie
Some yummy chocolate facts
2 years ago
As a child growing up chocolate used to be such a luxury to taste or buy. The only time we could have it at my house was on the social grant day. My granny would wake up early to avoid the long lines and on her way back home she would buy the biggest chocolate…
Gents
The Gentleman's Renaissance
7 months ago
“gentleman” noun (pl. gentlemen) a man who is polite and well educated, who has excellent manners and always behaves well Thank you—you're a real gentleman. He's no gentleman!” Oxford dictionary What are the core qualities of a gentleman? A gentleman is respectful, he’s confident and embraces his imperfections. He carries a mindset of equality, he's…
Gents
Navigating Men's Body
2 years ago
Hey guys, let's talk about the pressure to look good for men. We all know how it feels to scroll through social media and see images of guys with abs for days and chiselled biceps. But then, we're told that it's okay to have a #dadbod and not worry about our physique. So, what's the…
Gents
Breaking the Silence
2 years ago
The recent shooting of South African rapper AKA has spotlighted the pervasive levels of violence in the country, particularly towards young black men. The shooting dredged up memories of my experience with gun violence a few years ago. I remember feeling scared, confused, and powerless at that moment, and the emotions have stuck with me…
Girl Talk
How to Kiss
a month ago
The first time I kissed someone was on a dare. We were in grade 7, and all my friends had already had their first kiss. I really didn’t want to go to High School, never having been kissed. One day after class, my best friends, my crush and I were sitting outside on the field…
Girl Talk
PATTY
4 months ago
Ek haal my sunglasses af om vesieke te maak ek sien reg. Daai's mos Patty wat soe innie vlak branders rol. Nogals in ‘n zebra print bikini. Ek dog sy’s 'n never-nude. Sy’s gewoonlik toegekap. Sy’s altyd gelayered met jerseys, jackets en doekies, even oppie waremste dae. Patty moet sieke my gaze gevoelet wan sy…
Girl Talk
Embracing the Cycle
4 months ago
The menstrual cycle (or period) is a beautiful stage of life that every woman experiences. It can be quite scary at first but you are not alone. I remember my first period. It was at the end of Grade 8. Early one morning at school I felt strange cramps in my stomach. I carried on…
Girl Talk
My Body, My Choice
4 months ago
An unplanned pregnancy can be very overwhelming, especially if you have no intention of keeping the pregnancy full-term. If you are afraid that you may be sitting with an unwanted pregnancy and in need of an abortion... Do not worry, you have come to the right place. This can be a scary time, you may…
Girl Talk
Fighting for Gold and Respect: Imane Khelif
4 months ago
Many of us watched with bated breath as Imane Khelif took part in the gold medal welterweight boxing match at the French Olympics – clinching victory on 9 August, South African Women’s Day, and making her supporters proud. The Algerian 25-year-old won her first gold medal by beating China’s Yang Liu, crying excitedly and thanking…
Girl Talk
Women's Day Rocks!
5 months ago
Growing up, my mother always made me wear my brightest and boldest outfit for Women’s Day. It was as important as our “Christmas outfits.” I didn’t fully grasp why until one sunny Women’s Day, sitting on the edge of my grandma’s cosy, well-worn couch, she shared her experiences of living in apartheid South Africa. I…
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Women’s Day Squad Goals
5 months ago
August marks Women’s Month in South Africa, a time where women and their successes, plights, heroism, and tragedies ascend into the limelight and are given additional salience. This Women’s Month, I propose uniting two forces; fems (feminists) and trads (traditionalists). Fems are individuals who advocate for women's rights on the basis of equality of the…
Girl Talk
Adulting. My unconventional Cinderella Story
5 months ago
You know how, in the fairy tale, Cinderella’s wicked stepmother makes her cook, clean and take care of everything around the house? My foster mother did the opposite, she hated having anyone else with her in the kitchen, so she never taught me how to cook. Besides doing the dishes every now and again and…
Girl Talk
Innocence Denied: The Adultification of Black Girls
7 months ago
Adultification (noun): the process or fact of treating or considering a child as if they are an adult, usually in a way that is wrong or harmful. For Black women, this concept is not just a word; it’s a lived experience that begins well before they reach adulthood. Black women have a rite of passage…
Girl Talk
Thanks Diddy, this is why we’d choose the bear
7 months ago
The "man or bear" TikTok argument gained traction after the pop culture account Screenshot HQ posted a video in April asking eight women if they'd rather be stuck in a forest with a man or a bear. Seven women chose "bear," and one chose "man." Some women explained that they would choose the bear since…
Girl Talk
Sexuality vs. Objectification
7 months ago
Hey, let's talk about a tricky line we're all navigating: Walking the tightrope between embracing our sexuality and being sexualized? It’s tricky. Why? Because patriarchal norms - fuelled by everyone, yes, even women - often dictate how we show up in the world. Let’s dive into this battleground. I recently stumbled upon a post by…
Girl Talk
Mom's Pearls of Wisdom
8 months ago
Life doesn't come with an instruction manual; it comes with a mother. The love of a mother is enduring. Without the nurturing figures we regard as mothers—biological mothers, grandmothers, godmothers, sisters, aunts, and guardians—where and who would we be? They provide us with support, stability, and encouragement and help us realise our greatest potential at…
Girl Talk
Black Widow Society
8 months ago
The opening lines, "Her gums are bleeding, her eyes are swollen. Her sheer silk, knee-length negligee is torn and stained with lots of blood," immediately drew me into Black Widow Society by Angel Makholwa, it all felt familiar - we encounter stories like this every day in 2024. As we celebrate World Book Day, I…
Girl Talk
Your Boyfriend is Not a Narcissist, He's Just Terrible
9 months ago
Have you ever found yourself calling someone a narcissist in a fit of frustration or anger? I assure you, you probably have. This can be as casual as an online retort towards a troll or banter with a friend. It is easy to do this because we've normalised the use and misuse so much that…
Girl Talk
Weigh In / Oz-End It
9 months ago
Scroll through your social feed, and there it is – conversation everywhere about Ozempic. It feels like the whole world is hunting for the fastest way to lose weight, and Ozempic has suddenly become the spotlight. But the big question remains – is Ozempic the answer we've been looking for, or is it a bit…
Girl Talk
Mind the Gender Gap
9 months ago
Have you ever jumped on the Gautrain and wondered why the ticket feels like it's eating your wallet? Especially during the holiday rush, when "Mind the Gap" becomes more than just a safety reminder—it's a glimpse into the wider gap we're navigating: the gender wealth gap in South Africa. Forking out R3,595 for a Gautrain…
Girl Talk
Beyond the Crown
10 months ago
Oh, beauty pageants, those glittering spectacles of glamour that have strutted through the decades, often getting side-eye for celebrating a pretty narrow slice of beauty - all sparkle, no substance, right? Wrong! It's time to toss that old script out the window because pageants like Miss South Africa are flipping the narrative, mixing beauty with…
Girl Talk
Breaking Codes and Stereotypes
10 months ago
"During my second year, I heard about the shortages of black females in tech, and it was always a wow factor when people heard what I was studying. I suppose it was surprising at the time to have any interest, being black and female," Nozipho, a 28-year-old Information Security Specialist, shares her empowering journey within…
Health
How to use a condom
5 days ago
Everyone always tells us to perform safer sex. “Use a condom,” our teachers frequently tell us. “Why didn’t you use a condom?” They ask when something went wrong, but has anyone ever actually told us how to use one? How to make sure it is put on in the right way? It can be daunting…
Health
Is That All You’re Eating?
2 weeks ago
Watching the latest season of Heartstopper on Netflix brought back memories of a time when I couldn’t bear to look at food. Reading the graphic novel that inspired the show many years ago, I saw my struggles portrayed with such compassion in drawings and words that it moved me to tears. I could never call…
Health
Sleep is Health
2 weeks ago
Many of us have heard that sleeping too much is a sign of demotivation. American actor, comedian, and television host, Steve Harvey, famously said that one cannot sleep for eight hours a day and hope to be successful. The media mogul is not alone in his sentiments. I recall one of my master’s lecturers once…
How to
How to Have Difficult Conversations
a month ago
What do you do when you fear conflict and dread tough conversations? As difficult as they are, it's important to have them. Even when it hurts, speaking our truth and setting boundaries are essential for growth and flourishing in our lives. Below, I will take you through some tips that have helped me navigate tricky…
How to
Write Right
4 months ago
Just under a year ago, my blogging journey with Fundza began - a journey that transformed my understanding of writing. Initially, I had a basic grasp of putting words together, but the art of crafting a compelling blog was still a mystery to me. Each day, I dedicated myself to refining my writing skills, diving…
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Immune-boosting natural remedies
a year ago
It has been cold, really cold, and now more than ever we experience symptoms of flu or the common cold. So, how do we combat them? Going to the doctor can be expensive and sitting for hours at the day hospital is no one’s idea of fun. If you are not seriously ill, and just…
Life Advice
Help me, I’m changing!
5 months ago
Puberty… What is it and why is it so confusing? You have probably heard your teachers or parents throw this word around so casually that it feels like a joke to them, therefore they do not have to take your feelings seriously. But the fact is, that’s not true. In easily understandable terms it is…
Life Advice
The Price of Silence - Why We Must Speak Against Human Trafficking
6 months ago
As Blue Campaign defines, human trafficking involves the use of force, fraud, or coercion to obtain some type of labour or commercial sex act. While traffickers might use different methods, the most noticeable methods to lure victims into trafficking situations are violence, manipulation, false promises of well-paying jobs and romantic relationships. Like many stories shared…
Life Advice
What Comic Characters Teach Us
2 years ago
When I was just a young comic book enthusiast, I was captivated by the awe-inspiring heroes and their unwavering dedication to using their extraordinary powers for the greater good. Like Uncle Ben wisely told Peter, the iconic Spider-Man, "With great power comes great responsibility." Witnessing these heroes embrace their responsibility ignited a deep admiration within…
Life Advice
Parent Power
2 years ago
Parenthood is a remarkable journey that many of us may embark on someday, and as teenagers, it's essential to reflect on the profound impact parents have on our lives. On the occasion of the Global Day of Parents, we celebrate and honour the incredible dedication, love, and sacrifices that parents around the world make to…
Life Advice
Romance on a Budget
2 years ago
Hey there, budget-conscious lovebirds! Who says you must break the bank to have a good time with your partner? Here are ten budget-friendly date ideas that will help you spark joy in your relationship without spending a fortune:​​ Go for a walk  As cliché as this may sound, taking a walk on the beach or…
Life Advice
What schools fail to teach you
2 years ago
As with many young people in the country who grew up impoverished over a decade ago, the prospects of me pursuing a higher education qualification post my matric year were quite slim due to limited funding opportunities This was before the free education era, I knew there and then that my saving grace would be…
Life Advice
Forget The Facts
2 years ago
I met my best friend in kindergarten when I was two years old. Over the years, she and I went to different schools and universities, became friends with entirely different groups of people and followed different life paths. She became more conservative and religious; I became more liberal and agnostic. However, whenever we came together…
Life Advice
Side Hustles to Make Your Wallet Happy
2 years ago
Have you ever heard the saying, 'money's too tight to mention'? I am familiar with it because I have personally experienced financial struggles like many other young people. I have faced difficulties in affording data, airtime, or simply hanging out with friends. In light of this, I have created a list of job suggestions to…
Life Advice
Why fast fashion is hurting the planet and your wallet
2 years ago
We all enjoy watching our faves on YouTube when they do those Shein and Superbalist clothing hauls parading the latest fashion trends and reminding us how cheap they are and how quickly you can have them in your wardrobe. Many of us secretly have our online shopping bags on these sites filled with every item…
Life Advice
Hypernudging: How Social Media Manipulates Our Behaviour
2 years ago
Have you ever felt like your social media feeds are tailor-made just for you? Maybe you keep seeing ads for the latest video game or fashion trend you've been talking about with your friends. Or maybe you keep scrolling and scrolling, even though you know you should stop and do your homework. There's a reason…
Life Advice
Staying sane in a changing climate
2 years ago
As the threat of climate change looms large over the world, it's no surprise that many individuals are feeling anxious about the potential impacts on their lives and the planet. This growing phenomenon, known as eco-anxiety, has become increasingly prevalent in recent years. In South Africa, the effects of climate change are already being felt,…
Life Advice
How to be a capetonian: A thread
2 years ago
IKapa lodumo as my people call it means the Cape of fame. It's a beautiful city known for its beaches, mountains and diversity in languages, cultures and people. It is, after all, called the Mother City, as it was the first place where Europeans settled. Like most architecture in the country, you only have to…
Life Advice
Our first home - things to look out for before moving in together
2 years ago
We’ve just celebrated Valentine's Day, love is in the air, and if Cupid didn’t miss you, you’re madly in love with your partner and are considering moving in together. Moving in together can be seen as the next step to solidifying your relationship, but if not done right it might be the catalyst to your…
Mindspace
Festive Fails! Keep calm this holiday
5 days ago
The festive season is around the corner, and for many of us, it’s a time filled with laughter, family, and celebration. But let’s be real for a moment – it can also be a season of stress, anxiety, and the occasional meltdown. Whether it's the pressure of hosting, buying gifts, or the challenge of being…
Mindspace
Vibes Over Lives: The Hypocrisy of Gender-Based Violence in South Africa
a week ago
“When you live in a country where a man is able to unalive his girlfriend, post a picture of her body and then take a video right after he did it, and it's still online 4 hours later, right after 16 days of activism, and a Chris Brown sold out concert... no words are needed,…
Mindspace
Year-End Fatigue Has Us All by the Neck
3 weeks ago
Are you having a hard time concentrating lately, or keeping up with your thoughts or time management? Does your body feel like you’ve just been hit by a bus, so much so that even the smallest tasks feel choresome? You’re not the only one. It’s that time of the year when people are anxious and…
Money Matters
How to Start a Startup
a month ago
What is a startup? According to investopedia, a startup is defined as a company in its early stages of operations. Founded by entrepreneurs who want to develop a product or service they believe is in-demand and hopefully underserved.   What does it do? Basically it's a new company working to solve a pain problem or…
Money Matters
How to Start Your Start Up
3 months ago
What is a startup? According to investopedia, a startup is defined as a company in its early stages of operations. Founded by entrepreneurs who want to develop a product or service they believe is in-demand and hopefully underserved. What does it do? Basically it's a new company working to solve a pain problem or do…
Money Matters
Job-hunting is whack
7 months ago
“We regret to inform you that you have not obtained this job.” “We will keep your résumé on file should a similar position open up.” “Thank you for taking the time to apply, but we will not be moving forward with you for the recruitment of this job.” If you have received any of the…
People on the move
Curator Phokeng Setai
a year ago
Phokeng is a name to be reckoned with in the art world in South Africa. Hailing from Bloemfontein and at 31 years old, he is a curator in Cape Town and has worked at Zeitz MOCAA, the world-famous art museum in Cape Town. His work is multi-disciplinary, as he recently completed his PhD in Anthropology…
People on the move
Get gaming with Tshepiso
a year ago
Meet Tshepiso Malema, the visionary entrepreneur on a mission to close the technology gap for young people in townships, all through the enchantment of gaming. It all started when he first laid his hands on an Xbox at a friend's place. "I was whisked away to different worlds. Gaming showed me that it can transport…
People on the move
Get to Know Yandisa Peko, Astrophysicist
a year ago
Get ready to swoon over Yandisa Peko, who set Twitter on fire with her jaw-dropping graduation photo and an oh-so-cool caption that read, "UCT Astrophysics and Science Space graduate." We may not all be astrophysicists, but one thing is crystal clear: this field demands some serious brainpower, especially when it comes to subjects like math…
Politics
Will We Ever Stop Talking About Black Tax?
a month ago
Social media was abuzz some weeks ago when lifestyle influencer, Sabelo the Kreator shared a vlog of his home renovations. In the video, with Thinah Zungu’s testimonial song Thandiwe serenading the viewers, the content creator can be seen through different phases of seeing the renovations come to life—from sourcing the material and crafting what he…
Politics
DIPUO TSA SEAFORIKA, THUTO, LE TSEOKAROLO SEMORUO YA BASHA
2 months ago
Nngwe ya dintlha  tsa botlhokwa tse di amang bokamoso  jwa basha ba maAforika, ebile di tshwarelelang lefatshegadi (kontinente) la Aforika morago mo maitekong a lone a go bona kgololosego ya tota ke gore batho ba lefatshegadi leno ke bangwe ba batho mo lefatsheng ba ba sa diriseng dipuo tsa  bone mo ikgolololong le itlhabololo ya…
Politics
“Ban? I Thought You Said Burn!” On Censorship in the Modern Age.
2 months ago
Many of my favourite books are banned in several American states. The conversation is about children’s safety, parental paranoia, and the problem of censorship in the modern age. I believe that parents have already had their young years. As much as we are grateful to have them in our lives to impart gems and nuggets…
Snapshots
My matric ball
a year ago
The matric dance was a chance for me to make beautiful memories. It's something I will take with me to University or College. It's something I can use to remember my friends, my classmates and my school. At first I was really nervous when I thought about the matric ball. I've never worn a formal…
Snapshots
Tiktok slang for 2023
2 years ago
What makes TikTok aka the clock app unique? It has to be the sense of familiarity as it recognises the smallest of things that we do daily, from skincare to chores or even mannerisms.  TikTok can be both general, but can also be quite niche, which helps people not feel like outsiders or weird for…
Snapshots
Is flirting cheating?
2 years ago
Imagine being on Instagram and seeing a certain post that your partner liked and commented on. The comment is something along the lines of  ‘Beautiful (heart emoji)’. You confront your partner and they don't see anything wrong with what they did, to them it was just harmless flirting with a friend. Was it harmless flirting…
Student Life
Stress, Sleep, Study
2 years ago
As a student and a full-time employee, I know firsthand how difficult it can be to balance the demands of school, work, and personal life. Sometimes I feel like I'm drowning in deadlines and responsibilities, and it can be hard to find the time to just breathe and relax. But I've learned that with some…
Student Life
Tips for Crushing Your University Applications!
2 years ago
Are you ready to kickstart your journey towards higher education and crush your university applications? Whether you're the first in your family to consider university or seek guidance, fear not because we've got you covered. In this article, we'll dive into all the practical tips and resources you need to prepare for university applications like…
Student Life
Unleash the fun: Holiday Activities To Make the Most of Your Time Off School!
2 years ago
It's that time of the year again - school holidays are finally here! It's the perfect time to take a well-deserved break from studying and focus on exploring new interests and learning new things. School holidays are an excellent opportunity to recharge, bond with friends and family, and engage in activities that promote personal growth…
Style Secrets
Skin Cycling
2 years ago
In the vast world of beauty and skincare trends, a recent buzz has been around skin cycling. Popularised by dermatologist Dr Whitney Bowe on TikTok, this nighttime skincare routine focuses on using fewer products in a specific way to achieve healthier-looking skin. Let's delve into the routine and explore what experts have to say about…
Style Secrets
Having your best Glow up
2 years ago
Have you ever experienced a glow-up? You know, that amazing process of positive personal transformation that involves changes to your appearance and style and even boosts your confidence? It's all about embracing who you are, making healthy changes physically and mentally, and being happy in your own skin. I had the chance to chat with…
Style Secrets
Thrifting or Vintage Shopping?
2 years ago
As a teen or young adult, you might be wondering how you can make a positive impact on the environment while still enjoying fashion. The good news is that there is a growing trend of thrifting and vintage shopping in South Africa that allows you to do just that! One of the biggest benefits of…
Style Secrets
Fashion when we were younger
3 years ago
I think it’s time we take a trip down memory lane.  Do you remember the popular trends of our day, and I’m talking about the early 2000’s here. When we relished jelly pumps –  I remember I had a grey one. Where we pranced around in pumpkin skirts – I owned a pink one and…
Style Secrets
Taking Off in Air Force 1s
3 years ago
I am sure you will agree that the perfect outfit is a game changer and confidence booster – but what’s an outfit without the perfect pair of kicks? Well gents, I come to you kicking like Jackie Chan! The classic Nike Air Force 1s are the perfect shoes for any occasion, and any outfit, and…
Style Secrets
Budget-friendly hair products
3 years ago
Let’s be honest, maintaining curly hair is expensive and that’s why I thought I should compile a list of curly girl products I approve of that won’t stretch your budget. I hope this list makes your natural hair journey a tiny bit easier.   Budget friendly brands: The Perfect Hair Curl Chemistry Iwori Afrodite Organics…
Style Secrets
My washday routine
3 years ago
As A and B we have discussed a lot about hair, from the curly girl method to different hair textures. One thing we have not talked much about is the biggest event of our lives when it comes to hair and that is washday. Plans need to be cancelled, phone calls need to blocked; it…
Style Secrets
Interview outfit etiquette
3 years ago
The pandemic has changed the idea of what a workplace is supposed to look like, people are now working from home. Working on zoom means we don’t have to dress up as we used to when going into the office, you can attend a meeting in sweats as long as they look presentable no one…
Word Of the Week
New year, new me
2 years ago
So it’s that time of the year again. You know, the time when you hear many people say, “New year, me.” It is very common to start a new year's resolution on this day. This can be to give something up, like sweets or chocolate, so you can be healthier. Example scenarios: “This year is…
Word Of the Week
Ukwaluka
2 years ago
It's that time of the year when boys become men, this traditionally happened between the ages of 16 and 26, though for health and safety concerns the South African government made it illegal for a boy under the age of 18 to go to initiations school. The ceremony is when mothers can show off their…
Word Of the Week
Slay, not sleigh
2 years ago
I’m sure you’ve heard or even read in the comment section on social media when girls or women praise each other by saying, “Slay, queen!” According to Dictionary.com slay, in this particular context, means, “to do something spectacularly well,” especially when it comes to fashion, artistic performance, or self-confidence.” Example scenarios: When your bestie posts…
Word Of the Week
The city girls are up!
2 years ago
A win for one is a win for all. That is especially the feeling when the phrase “City girls are up” is used. Women hype each other up all the time; if you go to their comment sections on social media, it would most likely be filled with other women complimenting each other. Comments like…
Word Of the Week
Fitna
2 years ago
This week’s word of the week is fitna. According to the Dictionary of Loanwords in the Cape Muslim Vernacular, written by Mogamat Alexander, fitna means gossip. Fitna is an Arabic word and is used throughout the Cape Muslim culture.  Example scenarios: You and your neighbour are sitting outside, and you both see someone you know.…
Word Of the Week
Maaf
2 years ago
We all have been in a rush and run into someone by mistake, stepped on people on the train, or made a simple mistake that requires us to apologise. Do you want a new word to use in those situations besides the same old “sorry”? Maaf is that word. According to the Dictionary of Loanwords…
Word Of the Week
Yebo
2 years ago
I’m sure you’re all too familiar with the term “Yebo”? Directly translated, you’re saying “Yes.” Dictionary.com defines yebo as a “Southern African informal expression of affirmation.” Yebo comes from the isiZulu language, and like with many other South African languages, it is easy and fun to use certain words, despite not being able to speak the language…
Word Of the Week
Oh, please!
2 years ago
You know that moment when your head goes back in laughter, and you’re like: “Oh, please”? As in, please stop talking nonsense. According to Urban Dictionary, reacting with “Oh Please” is typically used  “… when someone doesn't believe something another is saying.” Another way that Oh Please can be phrased is by saying, “Please, girl.”   Example scenarios:…
Word Of the Week
Qha
2 years ago
Done speaking and someone asks if you have something to add, but you are definitely finished speaking? Well, we have just the word for that in IsiXhosa. Qha in direct translation to English, means ‘only’. But it can be used differently in different contexts as well. Qha – used as only. “I went to buy…
Word Of the Week
Grootman
2 years ago
The term grootman has various meanings; it could mean older brother, but it is mostly used in townships as a term of respect for an older man or a leader.  How it is used: “My grootman was the best soccer player.” This means: “My older brother was the best soccer player.”  “Grootman is the organiser…
Word Of the Week
Bismillah
2 years ago
This week’s word of the week, Bismillah, explores a word taken from the Dictionary of Loanwords in the Cape Muslim Vernacular, written by Mogamat Alexander. It is an Arabic word that means “… in the name of Allah”. The dictionary further states that, “Bismillah is uttered before you begin something, especially before eating and/or drinking”.…
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Haibo/Bathong
2 years ago
“Haibona! what’s your problem?” “Bathong lona! What’s wrong with people?” “Haibo, why are you so pretty?” “Bathong… people do that??” Bathong! how many times as a nation have we had haibo moments? Black Twitter even nicknames South Africa as a country that laughs through shocking hard times. We show a state of shock or surprise…
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Mogirl/ Moghel
2 years ago
Mogirl or moghel, a word popularised by the gorgeous and ever-flamboyant, South Africa’s very own, Queen B, Bonang Matheba, AKA Ausi Dorothy. Mogirl or moghel, simply means “girl”. Ausi Dorothy’s heavy usage of the word made it one of South Africa's beloved words. Usage: “Moghel batlo hurda – girl they will hurt you.” or “Moghel…
Word Of the Week
Anie brand!
2 years ago
Have you heard of the saying “Anie brand”? Well, anie brand is translated as “On fire.”  According to Cape Flats Dictionary anie brand is, “said of someone who is very good with something.”  However, anie brand can literally mean that something is on fire, but you will naturally know in which context to use it! …
Word Of the Week
Woman
2 years ago
South Africa is known for its rich diversity in languages and culture. So to celebrate Women's Month, we are featuring the word ‘woman’ in South Africa’s eleven official languages. Mosadi – sePedi, seSotho and seTswana Umfati – siSwatii Musadzi – tshiVenda Wansati – xiTsonga Vrou – Afrikaans Woman – English Umfazi – isiNdebele and isiXhosa…
Word Of the Week
Surah
2 years ago
A Surah is the equivalent of a ‘chapter’ in the Qur’an. There are 114 Surahs in the Qur’an, each surah has its own meaning and benefit and the reciter of the surah reaps those benefits.  Surah Yaseen is for forgiveness. Surah abasa or Suratul’Abaasa is for success in all endeavours and safe journey. There are…
Word Of the Week
Versin
2 years ago
According to the Cape Flats Dictionary, versin is described as “crazy, stupid”. Versin is Afrikaaps and can be used in various contexts. Example scenarios: “Are you versin?” – You could ask this to anyone who may be doing something a little too stupid. “Don’t be versin.” – Saying to someone that they shouldn’t be dumb.…
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Nelly M
2 years ago
Who is Nelly M? The current social media generation would tell you: “Nelly M was a South African anti-apartheid influencer who spent 27 years in jail and former president of the country.”  From that description you can tell that Nelly M is the late, great Nelson Mandela. How did he become Nelly M? The Nelly…
Word Of the Week
Jassas!; jassou!
2 years ago
Life is not short of surprises or incredible events. But sometimes these events render us short of conventional words to express our shock or dismay.  Cape Afrikaans or Afrikaaps comes to the rescue, with “jassas!” / “jassou!”. According to the Cape Afrikaans, Kaap Afrikaans dictionary this is an exclamation of disbelief or shock.  Uses of…
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Laaitie
3 years ago
In South Africa, like in many other African countries, age is a very important factor that guides social relations, especially when it comes to making sure that young people are respectful to older people. Depending on your age there is always a word, formal or informal, to describe a youngster, no matter the language or…
Word Of the Week
Alostro
3 years ago
Have you ever felt far away from someone or something and just didn’t have the word to describe the feeling? Mzansi once again came to the rescue, with “alostro”. Though alostro sounds like an exotic Italian meal, it isn’t. Alostro is the word that describes the feeling you have when you’re badly craving something –…
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Understood the assignment
3 years ago
I’m sure you’ve heard the slang term “Understood the assignment”? If you haven’t, where have you been living?! According to Urban Dictionary, understood the assignment is  “a phrase used when someone is giving it 110 %. Whether it’s what they’re doing or what they’re wearing, this is someone who is really on top of their…
Word Of the Week
Thank you – In different African languages
3 years ago
One thing we have in common as Africans is respect. We are taught from a young age to greet even strangers, and to give up seats for the elderly, and always to say thank you when someone assists you. Our continent has many languages, and we say thank you in different ways, but the intention…
Word Of the Week
Motase
3 years ago
We, South Africa, the alluded Rainbow Nation, has the third-most official languages in the world. And we are always willing to learn each other’s languages, no problem!  One of the most spoken languages in the country is isiXhosa, notorious for its clicks which make it harder to learn than its Nguni ‘cousin’ languages. Nevertheless, this…
Word Of the Week
Bus (Busy-body)
3 years ago
“Shhh stop being so bus.” The pronunciation of bus is nothing like the English “bus” – the large vehicle for mass transportation. Bus is an Afrikaans slang word and stems from the English “busybody”. According to the Meriam Webster dictionary, busybody means “an officious or inquisitive person.” When someone says you’re bus, they are implying…
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Eshe
3 years ago
One of my all-time favourite slang words to use in a conversation has to be ‘Eshe’. I learnt this word when I moved to East London and through travelling have realised it’s somewhat particular to them and not many people who are not from there use it. Eshe isn’t necessarily a word with meaning but…
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It will end in tears
3 years ago
The South African youth have dubbed themselves, ‘a sad generation with happy pictures’, and mojolo is one of the things that make us sad, because – the next thing motho wa go blocka! These tragedies have turned most of us on social media into pessimists who have brought back the old-school saying, “It will end…
Word Of the Week
Moetie my bôs warm maakie
3 years ago
“Moetie my bôs warm maakie” (Moet nie my bors warm maak nie) is a very unusual saying. The literal translation is: don’t make my chest warm. I mean, it sounds so weird in English but makes complete sense in Afrikaans. People usually say moetie my bôs warm maakie when they are quite upset at someone…
Work-Wise
Her Name is Mbali Nhlapho, and She’s a Housekeeper
6 months ago
With her sweet catchphrase, “My name is Mbali Nhlapho, and I’m a housekeeper”, captivating audiences, the charismatic 40-year-old uses TikTok and other online networks to share cleaning tips with audiences. In her videos, Mbali often uses everyday household products, such as vinegar, lemons, toothpaste, and bicarbonate of soda, to remove stains, get rid of bugs,…
Work-Wise
Work Etiquette
a year ago
Starting a new job can be stressful, and once you’ve gone through the interview process, things can seem a little bit easier. But you should be mindful of how you conduct yourself at work. There are some things that may not be wise to share at work, there are some things that may not be…
Work-Wise
Young and Unemployed
2 years ago
In the challenging landscape of youth unemployment, Tasneem Eckardt, a 23-year-old from Mitchell's Plain, finds herself among the countless young individuals grappling with the daunting task of securing employment, particularly with no prior work experience fresh out of high school. According to the latest data from StatsSA's Quarterly Labour Force Survey (QLFS) for the first…