Culture
A Stage for Violence? South Africa's Response to Chris Brown’s Upcoming Concert
3 weeks ago
Chris Brown is coming to South Africa. Let's sit down and talk about it. The Live in Johannesburg, Breezy in South Africa event, presented by Big Concerts and Y, will be held on Saturday and Sunday, December 14 & 15, 2024, at Johannesburg's infamous FNB Stadium, Africa's largest stadium. This will be Brown's first time…
Culture
My unique Heritage Day
3 months ago
South Africa is a rich and diverse land, with many cultures making up our beautiful rainbow nation. Heritage Day, commemorated on 24 September each year, is a perfect way to celebrate the wealth of customs and cultures of our people. Each year, South Africans from all walks of life enjoy the public holiday by dressing…
Culture
TikTok Love Tests: More Harmful Than Helpful?
6 months ago
Do you ever question if your partner truly loves you? In the past year or so, there has been a massive increase in TikTok trends that "pretend" to "test" a partner's devotion or the quality of a couple's relationship. Generally, TikTok relationship tests are done with their partner while making a video and posting the…
Culture
Content Copycat: The Culinary Clash Between Chefs Onezwa Mbola and Nara Smith
6 months ago
TikTok and Twitter have been burning for the last week or so with absolute drama, remarks, and FIRE because of South African Eastern Cape-based chef and content creator Onezwa Mbola and US-based chef, model and content creator Nara Smith. Smith is a Lesotho-German fashion model who was born in Bloemfontein. Both chefs have amassed sizable…
Culture
Good Teacher Bad Teacher
6 months ago
Have you ever encountered a lecturer or teacher who was so unkind that the mere thought of seeing them during class would give you anxiety? Have you ever shaped your opinion of your capabilities and how your educator perceived you? Have you ever been so inspired to excel at your studies and future career milestones…
Culture
Girlfriend Proposals: Love Upgrade or Total Hype?
7 months ago
In the spotlight of social media, where every photo and story is broadcasted to the masses, there's a fresh trend on the block—girlfriend proposals. Yep, you heard that right. Proposals aren't just for popping the big marriage question anymore; they've stylishly slid into the dating scene, igniting all kinds of buzz about their meaning and…
Culture
Claremon-Mobri-Kaap!
8 months ago
Step into the bustling streets of Cape Town, and you're stepping into a world where the taxi culture isn't just transportation; it's the city's lifeblood, an ode to the spirit of its people. For those setting foot in the Mother City for the first time, be prepared for an immersive experience, a dive into the…
Culture
Amapiano: From South African Beats to Global Debates
8 months ago
The main event at the 2024 Africa Cup of Nations wasn't the match between the South African and Nigerian teams; the real showdown occurred on Twitter with the Amapiano wars between South Africans and Nigerians. Not me logging in after the match and seeing a tweet saying, "Dear South Africans, Amapiano belongs to Nigerians now"…
Culture
Situationships
9 months ago
“We’re seeing each other but we’re not ‘together’.” “We don’t like labels, but we’re definitely more than friends with benefits.” “There’s an emotional connection but I don’t know where I stand or how to introduce them to my friends.” If you’ve ever said or heard any of these phrases uttered before, you’ve likely either been…
Culture
Echoes Through Time
9 months ago
At the core of oral tradition is the goal of preservation. It is why, through the power of our voice and gestures, we tell stories of the past to preserve our cultures, identities, and customs and pass them on from one generation to the next. It is important to acknowledge and examine how storytelling and…
Culture
Whispers from kwaGogo: The Magic of Oral Storytelling
9 months ago
Picture this scene: You're 5 or 6 years old and visiting kwaGogo for the holidays. All your cousins and siblings are there, and you're seated on the dining room floor waiting for breakfast or lunch to be served. UGogo and your Aunt arrive and give you all a meal and promises that if you finish…
Culture
From Maan Kyking to Boeber Night
10 months ago
Ramadaan is around the corner, and Muslims worldwide are preparing for the auspiciousness of this wonderful month. With Muslims following the lunar calendar, Ramadaan is the ninth month of the Islamic year, with its commencement moving forward by eleven days annually. Ramadaan is an important month for Muslims because it was during this period, 1445…
Culture
Rhythms of Unity
10 months ago
While travelling to school on the busy roads of Cape Town, navigating the sea of taxis, buses and the occasional cyclist riding the wave of early morning traffic, you may see the countless posters hung up. Registreer en Stem! Bhalisa, away vote! Register and Vote! As we near thirty years of democracy, one cannot help…
Culture
Echoes of Identity: Embracing Our Mother Tongues
10 months ago
International Mother Language Day always strikes a deep chord with me. It's a day that celebrates the rich tapestry of languages that form the very backbone of our diverse cultures and identities. Let me share a bit about how this day came into being and why it resonates so profoundly with me as a Black…
Culture
Love in the Digital Age: Unpacking Valentine's Day 2024
10 months ago
It's that time of the year again when love seems to be in the air, and every storefront is decked out in red and pink. But as we dive into the heart of February, let's hit pause and ask ourselves: is Valentine's Day still relevant for us, the young and restless? Should we even contemplate…
Culture
What the heck, Grammys?
11 months ago
We spoke about snubs at the Oscars, and next up, we have snubs at the Grammys! If you haven't seen it yet, on Sunday, during his acceptance speech for the Dr Dre Global Impact Award at the Grammys, Jay-Z stood on business and called the Recording Academy out for not giving his wife credit where…
Culture
Barbie at the Oscars: Feminism or Faux-Pas?
11 months ago
Barbie has made headlines again. The lack of recognition of the work of Greta Gerwig and Margot Robbie in the Director and Best Actress category nominations for the film Barbie at the upcoming 96th Oscar Academy Awards has caused an uproar with the internet regarding it as 'anti-feminist'. However, the nomination of their co-star, America…
Culture
Netflix Dreams
11 months ago
Hailing from Samora Machel in Phillipi, 24-year-old performer Bonani Ngamlane proves that dreams come true with his inspirational journey that started from his adolescent dreams in Samora and took him to the world with his role as Qhawe Jobodwana, a football team member in The Queenstown Kings, which premiered on the 17th of November on…
Culture
Afriyanos: Bringing Afrikaans and Amapiano Together
12 months ago
Amapiano is one of the most popular homegrown music genres, with some of the biggest songs in South Africa. DJs like Kabza de Small, DJ Maphorisa, Uncle Waffles and many others have taken the sound internationally, where international demand for the genre keeps increasing. With its origins in kwaito, house, hip-hop, R&B and jazz, amapiano…
Culture
'Tis the season for seven colours and choices assorted!
a year ago
The festive season is here and is well on the way. *cues* It's the most beautiful time of the year. There is not one mall and store I've entered that is not filled with large Christmas trees decorated with shiny balls and ornaments. Traditionally, Christmas is a Christian holiday that commemorates the birth of Jesus.…
Culture
Summer Reads: Your No-Homework, All-Play Booklist
a year ago
Ready to turn the page on school and work stress and soak up the sun? Whether you're lounging under the cool shade of a tree or chilling beachside with the ocean breeze, summer's the perfect backdrop for getting lost in a book. In this post, I’ve got the ultimate summer reading list just for you.…
Culture
Less or more sex for Gen Z?
a year ago
For a generation that is so sexually liberated and in tune with existing spectrums of gender, it's been interesting to read that Gen Z isn't quite jiggy with the idea of putting sexual ideas into practice. I mean, in a fast-paced world where we have limitless access to literally everything - social media, television shows…
Culture
Cape Malay meets Xhosa love
a year ago
I am in a loving interracial relationship with a Xhosa man whom I love dearly. I’m happy, and so is he, so why does the world seem to have a problem with us? These are the melancholy thoughts I have regularly as my partner and I walk in a mall or enjoy a picnic on…
Culture
Art Speaks: Voices from the Rubble
a year ago
During my recent visit to the Constitutional Court in Hillbrow, I encountered a powerful testament to the role of art in championing justice and peace. Among the standout pieces was Pitika Ntuli's bone sculpture, "Gaza: Lest We Forget" (2015). This artwork, initially understated, unravels a compelling narrative advocating for peace and solidarity with Palestinians amidst…
Culture
The Role of Women in Ulwaluko (Initiation)
a year ago
In the IsiXhosa culture, the passage to manhood is through the traditional process of Ulwaluko/Ukoluka (initiation) for young boys. The duties associated with the rites of this passage are divided between men and women in families, with men entrusted with governing the whole process from start to end while women are left out. While the…
Culture
Raising voices, dropping sticks
a year ago
“My teacher hit me with the wooden part of a blackboard duster behind my ear. I started bleeding and blood got onto my white shirt. Teachers hit all the time in my school. We are hit for being late for school, late for class. We are hit for making noise and being quiet when asked…
Culture
Are young people ditching the altar for good?
a year ago
Marriage is not something that I witnessed happening a lot in my family. Most of our family households are led by unmarried women. And seeing women lead so powerfully and make it look effortless influenced my view on marriage and whether I need it for myself. These women know how to fix appliances when they…
Culture
Tyla to the world
a year ago
“Make me sweat, make me hotter, make me lose my breath, make me water"-this catchy line from Tyla’s “Water” is a hit everywhere, and young people can’t help but sing and dance along. It’s not often a song comes around that gets everyone feeling happy and united, just like “Jerusalema” did a while back. Now,…
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Get to know the duo behind Matric Live!
7 months ago
Matric Live, is the flagship product of SAADC (Pty)ltd, an EdTech-focused software startup founded by Lesego Finger and later joined by Kagisho Masae. The company is on a mission to level the playing field for under-resourced children in South Africa. Finger's inspiration for starting an EdTech company came when he finished his final (Matric) year…
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Why we dream
a year ago
Have you ever woken up in the morning after the most perfect date night on top of the Eiffel Tower only to become disappointed to realize it was just another dream? Or perhaps you’ve experienced the reverse, waking up in the middle of the night with your heart thumping and sheets wet with sweat, only…
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Did You Know? Jay-Z is Hip-Hop's first billionaire
a year ago
From a controversial past, to releasing multi-platinum albums, winning multiple awards and marrying Beyonce, Jay-Z can now add being a billionaire to his ever growing list of achievements. Shawn Corey Carter, known by his stage name ‘Jay-Z’ has officially become a billionaire, according to an article by Forbes magazine. Jay-Z grew up in the Marcy…
Digital Literacy
My AI is thirsty
a week ago
From TikTok recommendations to chatbots answering your questions, AI is everywhere. While it’s super useful and exciting, it’s also important to understand the resources AI needs to run—and how that affects the environment.   AI needs space to live—big spaces called data centers. These are giant warehouses full of computers storing and processing information. But…
Digital Literacy
Turning Pages with Your Ears
3 months ago
In recent years, the world of reading has changed. Where once physical books were the dominant medium, audiobooks are now rapidly becoming the go-to choice for many. This shift from the traditional to the auditory is more than a trend—it reflects our fast-paced, multitasking world. But what about audiobooks makes them so appealing, and could…
Digital Literacy
AI in Africa
3 months ago
Artificial intelligence has grown immensely popular in the last few years, heralded as both the threat to our humanity and the answer to our most basic problems. But is it truly here to solve our issues, or is the hype clouding our judgement? Narratives surrounding this technology are threefold. Firstly, AI is posed as a…
Foodie
From Bubble tea to Corn dogs
2 years ago
Have you noticed how Korean culture is everywhere right now? From K-Pop to skincare, it seems like everyone is obsessed with all things Korean. So, I decided to jump on the bandwagon and try some popular Korean food to see if the hype is real. Now, let me tell you, Korean food is not for…
Foodie
Owami Mhlongo: Putting your heart on a plate
2 years ago
Twenty-year-old Owami Mhlongo grew up in Pinetown KZN. She describes her childhood as having been “rocky” and this resulted in her spending a lot of time with her aunt and grandmother. It is from here though that she traces her love of food.  Now a practitioner in a fine-dining establishment, her earliest food memories are…
Foodie
Some yummy chocolate facts
2 years ago
As a child growing up chocolate used to be such a luxury to taste or buy. The only time we could have it at my house was on the social grant day. My granny would wake up early to avoid the long lines and on her way back home she would buy the biggest chocolate…
Gents
The Gentleman's Renaissance
7 months ago
“gentleman” noun (pl. gentlemen) a man who is polite and well educated, who has excellent manners and always behaves well Thank you—you're a real gentleman. He's no gentleman!” Oxford dictionary What are the core qualities of a gentleman? A gentleman is respectful, he’s confident and embraces his imperfections. He carries a mindset of equality, he's…
Gents
Navigating Men's Body
2 years ago
Hey guys, let's talk about the pressure to look good for men. We all know how it feels to scroll through social media and see images of guys with abs for days and chiselled biceps. But then, we're told that it's okay to have a #dadbod and not worry about our physique. So, what's the…
Gents
Breaking the Silence
2 years ago
The recent shooting of South African rapper AKA has spotlighted the pervasive levels of violence in the country, particularly towards young black men. The shooting dredged up memories of my experience with gun violence a few years ago. I remember feeling scared, confused, and powerless at that moment, and the emotions have stuck with me…
Gents
From Late Texts to Fatherhood
2 years ago
Safe sex is great sex, so better wear a latex if you don't want to get that late text, telling you, 'I'm late' text." Lil Wayne may have rapped these lyrics in his song Lollipop, but they hold more truth than some people realize. I didn't take this advice and received that dreaded late text…
Gents
Breaking the Mold: SA Men Redefine Masculinity and Challenge Gender Stereotypes
2 years ago
Have you ever stopped to think about how masculinity is portrayed in South African society? From TV shows to sports, we're bombarded with images of tough, dominant men who never show any weakness or vulnerability. This can lead to toxic masculinity. Toxic masculinity refers to harmful and limiting beliefs and behaviours associated with traditional societal…
Gents
Hood 007
2 years ago
For years James Bond fans have wanted a black James Bond, with many suggesting Idris Elba be given the role. I mean, it’s Idris – he has the charm, the charisma, and the voice to nail the famous “The name’s Bond, James Bond” line with ease.  I think I would play that role better than…
Gents
Let’s shake on it
2 years ago
I grew up with my grandma and she used different phrases from what I knew for everything. She used izihlonipho in isiXhosa – respectful, traditional phrases, not the more modern,  sometimes slangy ones I used. She called hands, “Izamkeli”, which loosely translates to gestures of welcome.  “Bamba indwendwe izamkeli Thandile,”  she would say. For my…
Gents
School of hard knocks
3 years ago
IKasi is said to have lazy youth, but I think the lack of job creation has more to do with it. Young people have shown time and time again that they aren’t lazy; they just need resources, role models and opportunities to lift themselves. This is something youth development activist, Mboneleli ‘Mbo’ Gqirana, can attest…
Gents
Puff N Pass, away?
3 years ago
“Baby, pass me the hookah!” This Young Thug lyric from 2014 is still very much doing the rounds today, as the hookah pipe sets Mzansi alight. The hookah pipe is a Persian invention from the 16th century. It made its debut in Southern Africa by the late 1900s, but it was only in the mid-2010s…
Gents
Podcasts and misogyny
3 years ago
A Twitter user, Flossyjay tweeted: “Why do men start podcasts instead of going to therapy?” I was confused about what the one has to do with the other. Until I went into the thread and really understood what prompted the question. Various women were talking about men who have started podcasts or are co-hosts and…
Gents
Hosting our girlfriends
3 years ago
Majita, I know we think that some women complain about almost everything about us. If you are on social media, then you should know the “indoda must…”, which is basically a way of some women trying to dictate to men how to act and behave. Often the things some women say we must have are…
Gents
Cleanliness is close to Godliness
3 years ago
Ola majita! It’s time to talk grooming and personal hygiene. Men are sometimes considered to have lower grooming and personal hygiene standards than women, oops – we’re taking Ls. An American Cleaning Institute study found that men are less likely to wash their hands after petting an animal, before and after handling food, and coughing…
Gents
“Men, You Are On Your Own”
3 years ago
WARNING: This piece refers to suicide. Emergency and counselling contact details are provided at the end of the article. The passing of rapper Riky Rick shocked many people, including me. I have been close to that edge a number of times and thought of jumping. I never did – but I understood him and other…
Gents
Abafowethu – Brotherhood
3 years ago
On the 12th of December 2021, my friends and I were involved in a traumatic event that involved shooting. Living in Khayelitsha, Cape Town, one of the most dangerous cities in the world, we hear gunshots every day from breakfast to supper. Even so, none of us, before that day, had ever been close to…
Gents
No call to Catcall
3 years ago
“Dudlu ntombazana andithuki wena ndithuk’uthando….” You’re 12 years old and seeing your uncle charismatically compliment a woman. You’re too young to notice she’s not genuinely smiling. Rather, she’s uncomfortable, because the continuation of that sentence was not a compliment, but him objectifying and sexualizing her. You’re too young to know this and he’s a skyscraper…
Gents
Men’s Conference
3 years ago
Valentine’s is around the corner and over the years how it’s celebrated has changed, but one thing remained constant – Valentine’s being celebrated by couples and spoiling each other with gifts as a show of their affection and appreciation. For years everyone thought everyone was happy, but contrary to popular belief many men weren’t happy.…
Gents
Ekasi: Men Don’t Cry
3 years ago
When I was a boy, I would come home crying and my uncles would ask me why I was crying. When I told them another boy had hit me, they would say, “Boys don’t cry. Go back and fight for yourself. Boys who cry are weak.” I grew up and became a man but my…
Gents
Amapiano: The Sounds of Ekasi
3 years ago
Ever since amapiano first broke into our mainstream music scene, the genre has found its way to every ekasi corner and it has even gained traction across the sea as well! Local event organisers know that the event is not lit enough if there is no amapiano DJ on the lineup! Amapiano songs have that…
Gents
No means no
3 years ago
For a long while, when I thought or heard of rape and sexual assault, I thought it had to be a physically brutal act. I thought about threatening language, violence and forced penetration. Though all this may true for many people, it’s not always what rape looks like. Rape is non-consensual sex. This means that…
Gents
That iphara is my brother
3 years ago
One day I was walking to the shopping centre that is not far from where I stay. I had just crossed a busy road when I heard someone calling my name. I looked back but I did not see anyone that I recognised. I carried on with my walk until I heard the person calling…
Gents
Are we a thirsty generation?
3 years ago
South Africans have rather a close relationship with their alcohol! The World Health Organization (WHO) classifies the majority of drinkers in the country as binge (excessive) drinkers. This means that roughly 59% of alcohol consumers drink more than 60g of pure alcohol on at least one occasion every month, or six alcoholic drinks. This is…
Gents
Age is not just a number
3 years ago
Growing up eKasi you unknowingly learn toxic behaviours which you carry to you adult life. You don’t even realise that these things are toxic because they are a norm in your surroundings. One of these things for me was, when I was in high school girls my age were ‘in relationships’ with men who were…
Gents
Real men don’t beat women
3 years ago
I was chilling with my friends on one Saturday afternoon when I noticed fingernail scratches on one of my friend’s neck and forearms. He told me, when I asked, that he had had an argument with his girlfriend and what I was seeing were her attempts at defending herself. “If you don’t beat your woman…
Girl Talk
How to Kiss
a month ago
The first time I kissed someone was on a dare. We were in grade 7, and all my friends had already had their first kiss. I really didn’t want to go to High School, never having been kissed. One day after class, my best friends, my crush and I were sitting outside on the field…
Girl Talk
PATTY
4 months ago
Ek haal my sunglasses af om vesieke te maak ek sien reg. Daai's mos Patty wat soe innie vlak branders rol. Nogals in ‘n zebra print bikini. Ek dog sy’s 'n never-nude. Sy’s gewoonlik toegekap. Sy’s altyd gelayered met jerseys, jackets en doekies, even oppie waremste dae. Patty moet sieke my gaze gevoelet wan sy…
Girl Talk
Embracing the Cycle
4 months ago
The menstrual cycle (or period) is a beautiful stage of life that every woman experiences. It can be quite scary at first but you are not alone. I remember my first period. It was at the end of Grade 8. Early one morning at school I felt strange cramps in my stomach. I carried on…
Girl Talk
My Body, My Choice
4 months ago
An unplanned pregnancy can be very overwhelming, especially if you have no intention of keeping the pregnancy full-term. If you are afraid that you may be sitting with an unwanted pregnancy and in need of an abortion... Do not worry, you have come to the right place. This can be a scary time, you may…
Girl Talk
Fighting for Gold and Respect: Imane Khelif
4 months ago
Many of us watched with bated breath as Imane Khelif took part in the gold medal welterweight boxing match at the French Olympics – clinching victory on 9 August, South African Women’s Day, and making her supporters proud. The Algerian 25-year-old won her first gold medal by beating China’s Yang Liu, crying excitedly and thanking…
Girl Talk
Women's Day Rocks!
5 months ago
Growing up, my mother always made me wear my brightest and boldest outfit for Women’s Day. It was as important as our “Christmas outfits.” I didn’t fully grasp why until one sunny Women’s Day, sitting on the edge of my grandma’s cosy, well-worn couch, she shared her experiences of living in apartheid South Africa. I…
Girl Talk
Women’s Day Squad Goals
5 months ago
August marks Women’s Month in South Africa, a time where women and their successes, plights, heroism, and tragedies ascend into the limelight and are given additional salience. This Women’s Month, I propose uniting two forces; fems (feminists) and trads (traditionalists). Fems are individuals who advocate for women's rights on the basis of equality of the…
Girl Talk
Adulting. My unconventional Cinderella Story
5 months ago
You know how, in the fairy tale, Cinderella’s wicked stepmother makes her cook, clean and take care of everything around the house? My foster mother did the opposite, she hated having anyone else with her in the kitchen, so she never taught me how to cook. Besides doing the dishes every now and again and…
Girl Talk
Innocence Denied: The Adultification of Black Girls
7 months ago
Adultification (noun): the process or fact of treating or considering a child as if they are an adult, usually in a way that is wrong or harmful. For Black women, this concept is not just a word; it’s a lived experience that begins well before they reach adulthood. Black women have a rite of passage…
Girl Talk
Thanks Diddy, this is why we’d choose the bear
7 months ago
The "man or bear" TikTok argument gained traction after the pop culture account Screenshot HQ posted a video in April asking eight women if they'd rather be stuck in a forest with a man or a bear. Seven women chose "bear," and one chose "man." Some women explained that they would choose the bear since…
Girl Talk
Sexuality vs. Objectification
7 months ago
Hey, let's talk about a tricky line we're all navigating: Walking the tightrope between embracing our sexuality and being sexualized? It’s tricky. Why? Because patriarchal norms - fuelled by everyone, yes, even women - often dictate how we show up in the world. Let’s dive into this battleground. I recently stumbled upon a post by…
Girl Talk
Mom's Pearls of Wisdom
8 months ago
Life doesn't come with an instruction manual; it comes with a mother. The love of a mother is enduring. Without the nurturing figures we regard as mothers—biological mothers, grandmothers, godmothers, sisters, aunts, and guardians—where and who would we be? They provide us with support, stability, and encouragement and help us realise our greatest potential at…
Girl Talk
Black Widow Society
8 months ago
The opening lines, "Her gums are bleeding, her eyes are swollen. Her sheer silk, knee-length negligee is torn and stained with lots of blood," immediately drew me into Black Widow Society by Angel Makholwa, it all felt familiar - we encounter stories like this every day in 2024. As we celebrate World Book Day, I…
Girl Talk
Your Boyfriend is Not a Narcissist, He's Just Terrible
9 months ago
Have you ever found yourself calling someone a narcissist in a fit of frustration or anger? I assure you, you probably have. This can be as casual as an online retort towards a troll or banter with a friend. It is easy to do this because we've normalised the use and misuse so much that…
Girl Talk
Weigh In / Oz-End It
9 months ago
Scroll through your social feed, and there it is – conversation everywhere about Ozempic. It feels like the whole world is hunting for the fastest way to lose weight, and Ozempic has suddenly become the spotlight. But the big question remains – is Ozempic the answer we've been looking for, or is it a bit…
Girl Talk
Mind the Gender Gap
9 months ago
Have you ever jumped on the Gautrain and wondered why the ticket feels like it's eating your wallet? Especially during the holiday rush, when "Mind the Gap" becomes more than just a safety reminder—it's a glimpse into the wider gap we're navigating: the gender wealth gap in South Africa. Forking out R3,595 for a Gautrain…
Girl Talk
Beyond the Crown
10 months ago
Oh, beauty pageants, those glittering spectacles of glamour that have strutted through the decades, often getting side-eye for celebrating a pretty narrow slice of beauty - all sparkle, no substance, right? Wrong! It's time to toss that old script out the window because pageants like Miss South Africa are flipping the narrative, mixing beauty with…
Girl Talk
Breaking Codes and Stereotypes
10 months ago
"During my second year, I heard about the shortages of black females in tech, and it was always a wow factor when people heard what I was studying. I suppose it was surprising at the time to have any interest, being black and female," Nozipho, a 28-year-old Information Security Specialist, shares her empowering journey within…
Health
How to use a condom
4 days ago
Everyone always tells us to perform safer sex. “Use a condom,” our teachers frequently tell us. “Why didn’t you use a condom?” They ask when something went wrong, but has anyone ever actually told us how to use one? How to make sure it is put on in the right way? It can be daunting…
Health
Is That All You’re Eating?
a week ago
Watching the latest season of Heartstopper on Netflix brought back memories of a time when I couldn’t bear to look at food. Reading the graphic novel that inspired the show many years ago, I saw my struggles portrayed with such compassion in drawings and words that it moved me to tears. I could never call…
Health
Sleep is Health
2 weeks ago
Many of us have heard that sleeping too much is a sign of demotivation. American actor, comedian, and television host, Steve Harvey, famously said that one cannot sleep for eight hours a day and hope to be successful. The media mogul is not alone in his sentiments. I recall one of my master’s lecturers once…
How to
How to Have Difficult Conversations
a month ago
What do you do when you fear conflict and dread tough conversations? As difficult as they are, it's important to have them. Even when it hurts, speaking our truth and setting boundaries are essential for growth and flourishing in our lives. Below, I will take you through some tips that have helped me navigate tricky…
How to
Write Right
4 months ago
Just under a year ago, my blogging journey with Fundza began - a journey that transformed my understanding of writing. Initially, I had a basic grasp of putting words together, but the art of crafting a compelling blog was still a mystery to me. Each day, I dedicated myself to refining my writing skills, diving…
How to
Immune-boosting natural remedies
a year ago
It has been cold, really cold, and now more than ever we experience symptoms of flu or the common cold. So, how do we combat them? Going to the doctor can be expensive and sitting for hours at the day hospital is no one’s idea of fun. If you are not seriously ill, and just…
Life Advice
Help me, I’m changing!
5 months ago
Puberty… What is it and why is it so confusing? You have probably heard your teachers or parents throw this word around so casually that it feels like a joke to them, therefore they do not have to take your feelings seriously. But the fact is, that’s not true. In easily understandable terms it is…
Life Advice
The Price of Silence - Why We Must Speak Against Human Trafficking
6 months ago
As Blue Campaign defines, human trafficking involves the use of force, fraud, or coercion to obtain some type of labour or commercial sex act. While traffickers might use different methods, the most noticeable methods to lure victims into trafficking situations are violence, manipulation, false promises of well-paying jobs and romantic relationships. Like many stories shared…
Life Advice
What Comic Characters Teach Us
2 years ago
When I was just a young comic book enthusiast, I was captivated by the awe-inspiring heroes and their unwavering dedication to using their extraordinary powers for the greater good. Like Uncle Ben wisely told Peter, the iconic Spider-Man, "With great power comes great responsibility." Witnessing these heroes embrace their responsibility ignited a deep admiration within…
Life Advice
Parent Power
2 years ago
Parenthood is a remarkable journey that many of us may embark on someday, and as teenagers, it's essential to reflect on the profound impact parents have on our lives. On the occasion of the Global Day of Parents, we celebrate and honour the incredible dedication, love, and sacrifices that parents around the world make to…
Life Advice
Romance on a Budget
2 years ago
Hey there, budget-conscious lovebirds! Who says you must break the bank to have a good time with your partner? Here are ten budget-friendly date ideas that will help you spark joy in your relationship without spending a fortune:​​ Go for a walk  As cliché as this may sound, taking a walk on the beach or…
Life Advice
What schools fail to teach you
2 years ago
As with many young people in the country who grew up impoverished over a decade ago, the prospects of me pursuing a higher education qualification post my matric year were quite slim due to limited funding opportunities This was before the free education era, I knew there and then that my saving grace would be…
Life Advice
Forget The Facts
2 years ago
I met my best friend in kindergarten when I was two years old. Over the years, she and I went to different schools and universities, became friends with entirely different groups of people and followed different life paths. She became more conservative and religious; I became more liberal and agnostic. However, whenever we came together…
Life Advice
Side Hustles to Make Your Wallet Happy
2 years ago
Have you ever heard the saying, 'money's too tight to mention'? I am familiar with it because I have personally experienced financial struggles like many other young people. I have faced difficulties in affording data, airtime, or simply hanging out with friends. In light of this, I have created a list of job suggestions to…
Mindspace
Festive Fails! Keep calm this holiday
4 days ago
The festive season is around the corner, and for many of us, it’s a time filled with laughter, family, and celebration. But let’s be real for a moment – it can also be a season of stress, anxiety, and the occasional meltdown. Whether it's the pressure of hosting, buying gifts, or the challenge of being…
Mindspace
Vibes Over Lives: The Hypocrisy of Gender-Based Violence in South Africa
a week ago
“When you live in a country where a man is able to unalive his girlfriend, post a picture of her body and then take a video right after he did it, and it's still online 4 hours later, right after 16 days of activism, and a Chris Brown sold out concert... no words are needed,…
Mindspace
Year-End Fatigue Has Us All by the Neck
3 weeks ago
Are you having a hard time concentrating lately, or keeping up with your thoughts or time management? Does your body feel like you’ve just been hit by a bus, so much so that even the smallest tasks feel choresome? You’re not the only one. It’s that time of the year when people are anxious and…
Money Matters
How to Start a Startup
a month ago
What is a startup? According to investopedia, a startup is defined as a company in its early stages of operations. Founded by entrepreneurs who want to develop a product or service they believe is in-demand and hopefully underserved.   What does it do? Basically it's a new company working to solve a pain problem or…
Money Matters
How to Start Your Start Up
3 months ago
What is a startup? According to investopedia, a startup is defined as a company in its early stages of operations. Founded by entrepreneurs who want to develop a product or service they believe is in-demand and hopefully underserved. What does it do? Basically it's a new company working to solve a pain problem or do…
Money Matters
Job-hunting is whack
7 months ago
“We regret to inform you that you have not obtained this job.” “We will keep your résumé on file should a similar position open up.” “Thank you for taking the time to apply, but we will not be moving forward with you for the recruitment of this job.” If you have received any of the…
People on the move
Curator Phokeng Setai
a year ago
Phokeng is a name to be reckoned with in the art world in South Africa. Hailing from Bloemfontein and at 31 years old, he is a curator in Cape Town and has worked at Zeitz MOCAA, the world-famous art museum in Cape Town. His work is multi-disciplinary, as he recently completed his PhD in Anthropology…
People on the move
Get gaming with Tshepiso
a year ago
Meet Tshepiso Malema, the visionary entrepreneur on a mission to close the technology gap for young people in townships, all through the enchantment of gaming. It all started when he first laid his hands on an Xbox at a friend's place. "I was whisked away to different worlds. Gaming showed me that it can transport…
People on the move
Get to Know Yandisa Peko, Astrophysicist
a year ago
Get ready to swoon over Yandisa Peko, who set Twitter on fire with her jaw-dropping graduation photo and an oh-so-cool caption that read, "UCT Astrophysics and Science Space graduate." We may not all be astrophysicists, but one thing is crystal clear: this field demands some serious brainpower, especially when it comes to subjects like math…
Politics
Will We Ever Stop Talking About Black Tax?
a month ago
Social media was abuzz some weeks ago when lifestyle influencer, Sabelo the Kreator shared a vlog of his home renovations. In the video, with Thinah Zungu’s testimonial song Thandiwe serenading the viewers, the content creator can be seen through different phases of seeing the renovations come to life—from sourcing the material and crafting what he…
Politics
DIPUO TSA SEAFORIKA, THUTO, LE TSEOKAROLO SEMORUO YA BASHA
2 months ago
Nngwe ya dintlha  tsa botlhokwa tse di amang bokamoso  jwa basha ba maAforika, ebile di tshwarelelang lefatshegadi (kontinente) la Aforika morago mo maitekong a lone a go bona kgololosego ya tota ke gore batho ba lefatshegadi leno ke bangwe ba batho mo lefatsheng ba ba sa diriseng dipuo tsa  bone mo ikgolololong le itlhabololo ya…
Politics
“Ban? I Thought You Said Burn!” On Censorship in the Modern Age.
2 months ago
Many of my favourite books are banned in several American states. The conversation is about children’s safety, parental paranoia, and the problem of censorship in the modern age. I believe that parents have already had their young years. As much as we are grateful to have them in our lives to impart gems and nuggets…
Politics
Miss SA 2024 and the Xenophobia Storm
5 months ago
Welcome to yet another episode of South Africans being Xenophobic. Surprise surprise. This time, the spotlight is on Chidimma Adetshina, a withdrawn finalist for Miss South Africa 2024, who became the target of xenophobic attacks due to her Nigerian heritage. Oh, South Africans, what will I do with you? Xenophobia, defined as the "dislike of…
Politics
Women’s Day- More Than Just a Public Holiday
5 months ago
Women’s Day in our country is the commemoration of the women who marched to the Union Buildings in protest against the extension of Pass Laws to women on 9 August 1956. Sixty-eight years later and their works have been reduced to passing mentions in speeches and an Instagram post if they’re lucky. Worst still, the…
Politics
We Are Dying Here eKapa
5 months ago
The life of a child is cheap in South Africa, and in the Western Cape it means almost nothing. This year alone, 79 children have already been shot dead, and the count continues. Gangsterism and its effects are not new in Cape Town and so you might be thinking, ‘we already know about this’. A…
Politics
Let Mandela Rest this Mandela Day
5 months ago
As Born-Frees, we are often scathing in our critique of the Rainbow Nation and those who ushered it in. We bemoan and callously deride the works of Nelson Mandela, particularly. "He sold us out. We achieved political freedom but not economic freedom," we say. While these sentiments remain true and are important in our quest…
Politics
GNU: Government of National (Dis)Unity
6 months ago
For the last two weeks, we have been inundated with news and speculation about the proclaimed Government of National Unity, led by the ANC (African National Congress) and nine other political parties. In this article, I will break down some key points you need to know about what this means (and doesn't mean) for us.…
Snapshots
My matric ball
a year ago
The matric dance was a chance for me to make beautiful memories. It's something I will take with me to University or College. It's something I can use to remember my friends, my classmates and my school. At first I was really nervous when I thought about the matric ball. I've never worn a formal…
Snapshots
Tiktok slang for 2023
2 years ago
What makes TikTok aka the clock app unique? It has to be the sense of familiarity as it recognises the smallest of things that we do daily, from skincare to chores or even mannerisms.  TikTok can be both general, but can also be quite niche, which helps people not feel like outsiders or weird for…
Snapshots
Is flirting cheating?
2 years ago
Imagine being on Instagram and seeing a certain post that your partner liked and commented on. The comment is something along the lines of  ‘Beautiful (heart emoji)’. You confront your partner and they don't see anything wrong with what they did, to them it was just harmless flirting with a friend. Was it harmless flirting…
Student Life
Stress, Sleep, Study
2 years ago
As a student and a full-time employee, I know firsthand how difficult it can be to balance the demands of school, work, and personal life. Sometimes I feel like I'm drowning in deadlines and responsibilities, and it can be hard to find the time to just breathe and relax. But I've learned that with some…
Student Life
Tips for Crushing Your University Applications!
2 years ago
Are you ready to kickstart your journey towards higher education and crush your university applications? Whether you're the first in your family to consider university or seek guidance, fear not because we've got you covered. In this article, we'll dive into all the practical tips and resources you need to prepare for university applications like…
Student Life
Unleash the fun: Holiday Activities To Make the Most of Your Time Off School!
2 years ago
It's that time of the year again - school holidays are finally here! It's the perfect time to take a well-deserved break from studying and focus on exploring new interests and learning new things. School holidays are an excellent opportunity to recharge, bond with friends and family, and engage in activities that promote personal growth…
Style Secrets
Skin Cycling
2 years ago
In the vast world of beauty and skincare trends, a recent buzz has been around skin cycling. Popularised by dermatologist Dr Whitney Bowe on TikTok, this nighttime skincare routine focuses on using fewer products in a specific way to achieve healthier-looking skin. Let's delve into the routine and explore what experts have to say about…
Style Secrets
Having your best Glow up
2 years ago
Have you ever experienced a glow-up? You know, that amazing process of positive personal transformation that involves changes to your appearance and style and even boosts your confidence? It's all about embracing who you are, making healthy changes physically and mentally, and being happy in your own skin. I had the chance to chat with…
Style Secrets
Thrifting or Vintage Shopping?
2 years ago
As a teen or young adult, you might be wondering how you can make a positive impact on the environment while still enjoying fashion. The good news is that there is a growing trend of thrifting and vintage shopping in South Africa that allows you to do just that! One of the biggest benefits of…
Word Of the Week
New year, new me
2 years ago
So it’s that time of the year again. You know, the time when you hear many people say, “New year, me.” It is very common to start a new year's resolution on this day. This can be to give something up, like sweets or chocolate, so you can be healthier. Example scenarios: “This year is…
Word Of the Week
Ukwaluka
2 years ago
It's that time of the year when boys become men, this traditionally happened between the ages of 16 and 26, though for health and safety concerns the South African government made it illegal for a boy under the age of 18 to go to initiations school. The ceremony is when mothers can show off their…
Word Of the Week
Slay, not sleigh
2 years ago
I’m sure you’ve heard or even read in the comment section on social media when girls or women praise each other by saying, “Slay, queen!” According to Dictionary.com slay, in this particular context, means, “to do something spectacularly well,” especially when it comes to fashion, artistic performance, or self-confidence.” Example scenarios: When your bestie posts…
Work-Wise
Her Name is Mbali Nhlapho, and She’s a Housekeeper
6 months ago
With her sweet catchphrase, “My name is Mbali Nhlapho, and I’m a housekeeper”, captivating audiences, the charismatic 40-year-old uses TikTok and other online networks to share cleaning tips with audiences. In her videos, Mbali often uses everyday household products, such as vinegar, lemons, toothpaste, and bicarbonate of soda, to remove stains, get rid of bugs,…
Work-Wise
Work Etiquette
a year ago
Starting a new job can be stressful, and once you’ve gone through the interview process, things can seem a little bit easier. But you should be mindful of how you conduct yourself at work. There are some things that may not be wise to share at work, there are some things that may not be…
Work-Wise
Young and Unemployed
2 years ago
In the challenging landscape of youth unemployment, Tasneem Eckardt, a 23-year-old from Mitchell's Plain, finds herself among the countless young individuals grappling with the daunting task of securing employment, particularly with no prior work experience fresh out of high school. According to the latest data from StatsSA's Quarterly Labour Force Survey (QLFS) for the first…
Work-Wise
YES for Youth Employment
2 years ago
Youth unemployment is at an all-time high, with 62,1% of the youth unemployed in South Africa. To help address this issue, the Youth Employment Service (YES), also known as Yes4Youth, was established in 2018 and has created over 107 355 jobs. YES is an non-profit organisation funded by the private sector. The YES programme aims…
Work-Wise
Student creates job-seeking app
2 years ago
Looking for a job has never been easier in today’s age of technology, but finding a job is becoming increasingly difficult. A report by StatsSA stated,  “According to the Quarterly Labour Force Survey for the first quarter of 2022, the unemployment rate was 63,9% for those aged 15-24 and 42,1% for those aged 25-34 years,…
Work-Wise
How to teach English in Korea: A guide for South Africans
2 years ago
Have a student loan? Need to find a job using your degree? Dream of traveling? Teaching English in South Korea suits all three.  South Korea (AKA: The Republic of Korea) is a small East Asian country with a population size similar to South Africa, even though its geographic size is closer to KwaZulu-Natal. Since the…
Work-Wise
Workplace 101: The importance of a strong work ethic
2 years ago
For some of us, 2023 is the year we begin our journey into the working world. Whether part-time or permanent, a packer or cashier, a call centre agent, in-service training, or your first job post-graduation, all these roles have something in common: employers require a committed, trustworthy employee with a strong work ethic. But what…
Work-Wise
Career Spotlight: Coding
2 years ago
Have you ever wondered how our phones or computer work, or even how to build an app? The technology behind is called coding (developing) and it’s a computer language. According to Computer Science Degree Hub, “Coding is basically the computer language used to develop apps, websites, and software. Without it, we’d have none of the…
Work-Wise
Job hunting: red and green flags
2 years ago
You finally get an interview for a job. You’re excited and nervous – a little bit all over the show. You know you can’t mess this up, so you dig deep and go all out to prepare. Here are some red and green flags to look out for when looking for a job: Red flags…
Work-Wise
To be a mentee
2 years ago
"Indlela ibuzwa kwabaphambili" is an isiXhosa proverb I grew up hearing. Loosely translated, it means "we ask for directions from the people in front"; that is, we ask for knowledge from those who know and have walked that journey before us. That is essentially what the practice of mentorship is: inspiring, teaching and guiding from…
Work-Wise
Must-haves when looking for a job
2 years ago
So, we all know the basics to have when looking and applying for a job right? CV and cover letter? But what about the process of applying. It used to be common practice to print out your CV and hand it to the recruiter, but these days everything is digital. We search up online, we…
Work-Wise
Work it!
2 years ago
There is something about being exposed to the real world – the real world of work, specifically – that helps young adults morph from the young to the adult part of that phrase. As an educator at a technical institution of learning, which sent their learners off for a period of in-service training/internship – before…
Work-Wise
Critical Skills: Becoming an Accountant
3 years ago
Are you a person who enjoys being organised and pays attention to detail? Are numbers also your thing? Do you find that you’re not so interested in abstract algebraic numbers, but you enjoy the structured approach of numbers when working out your finances? If this sounds like you, have you thought about becoming an accountant?…
Work-Wise
Critical Skills: Becoming a Data Analyst
3 years ago
Are you the kind of person who enjoys solving puzzles or digging into a mystery? Do you also enjoy working with numbers and on computers? Do you think you would be able to explain the story of your discovery to others through charts and graphs? If this sounds like it’s something you are comfortable doing,…
Work-Wise
Critical Skills: Becoming a Web Developer
3 years ago
Have you spent any time working on computer coding or using computer programmes? Are you creative, flexible, curious, and happy to upskill yourself on new digital technology? At the same time, do you think you are a problem-solver with plenty of discipline to work on your own and have good communication skills? If this sounds…
Work-Wise
Critical Skills: Becoming an Architect
3 years ago
Are you a creative person who likes thinking independently? Do you find that you have an interest in functional form, be it buildings or any other types of design? Maths may not be your best subject, but you can work through things in order to achieve your goals. On top of that, do you like…
Work-Wise
Interview with Chemical Analyst Simanye Sam
4 years ago
Tamica Mopp caught up with Simanye Sam to find out more about his work as a chemical analyst and researcher. What is one thing people would be surprised to know about you? I’m not really a nerd. When you’re doing chemistry, people tend to automatically think of you as introverted or a nerd. But I…
Work-Wise
Critical Skills: Becoming a Chemical Analyst
4 years ago
Have you thought about working in a laboratory? Are you logical and enjoy solving complex problems? If you’re the kind of person who enjoys working in a thorough way through problems and you’re interested in researching the structure and composition of matter, then a career as a Chemical Analyst may well be a good option…
Work-Wise
Interview with Civil Engineer Owen Mwaura
4 years ago
Amber Solomons interviewed civil engineer, Owen Mwaura, to find out why he decided to make this his career, what he enjoys about working in this field, and his advice to anyone wanting to study for a career in civil engineering. Why did you decide to study civil engineering? I think in my case it was…
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Critical Skills: Becoming a Civil Engineer
4 years ago
Do you enjoy solving problems and have a natural ability with maths and physical science? Have you thought about becoming an engineer? Are you confused about all the different types of engineers? You know you have good technical skills but you really aren’t clear about which area you should focus on? There are a number…
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Critical Skills: Becoming a Digital Designer
4 years ago
Are you creative and enjoy drawing or designing things? Or are you someone who spends time on the computer and enjoys online graphics? Have you thought about becoming a digital designer? You will combine your computer skills with your artistic side and create online designs and graphics in this line of work. South Africa has…
Work-Wise
Interview with nurse Noncedo Mxutu
4 years ago
As a nurse, Noncedo Mxutu is one of South Africa’s courageous frontline workers. She, like many other nurses, was fearful at first of the risk and challenges of the pandemic, as she says, “I’ve learnt that being a nurse is way more than caring for someone else but being a hero risking your life to…
Work-Wise
Critical Skills: Our Nursing Heroes
4 years ago
Have you ever been worried about your health or the health of someone close to you? Or, are you someone who wants to help others when they are struggling? Nurses have always played a critical role in our society. Without them our hospitals and clinics would cease to function as they are our primary health-care…
Work-Wise
Critical Skills: Becoming an Agriculturalist
4 years ago
Do you like the rural life? Are you interested in farming? The agricultural sector is growing and changing in South Africa and there is a great need for qualified young people in this field. In fact becoming a farm manager is listed as one of South Africa’s critical skills. What is agriculture? If you gain…
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Critical Skills: Going Green as a Geo-hydrologist
4 years ago
Are you interested in the environment? Do you care about our water supply; is there enough for everyone, how clean is it etc.? Would you like to be working outside for some of your working day? Have you thought about becoming a geo-hydrologist? This is another job that is critically needed in South Africa and,…
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Critical skills: Becoming a quantity surveyor
4 years ago
Do you enjoy working with numbers? Do you pay close attention to detail? Do you enjoy negotiating and analysing and solving problems? Are you good at meeting deadlines? Perhaps you have what it takes to be a quantity surveyor (QS)! What does a quantity surveyor do? Quantity surveyors are called on to work alongside architects,…
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Critical Skills: All the way up to an FET Principal
4 years ago
Do you love learning and people? Do you thrive on challenges and have leadership skills? Are you organised and a good communicator? It might seem a far-off goal but South Africa does have a shortage of skilled leaders, especially at FET colleges. Have you ever thought about setting yourself an ambitious target for your future…
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Critical Skills: Becoming a Medical Doctor
4 years ago
Have you dreamed about becoming a medical doctor? Do you love science and care about the well-being of people? Or are you more interested in the money and status that come with being a doctor? Do you know how long it takes to become a practising doctor? Is it something you have a passion for?…