To tell the truth we are living in a different world now. Like everything has changed and I have no one to blame and I don’t want to blame anyone. Change is always there but how things are done now is totally outrageous, more people get hurt in different ways. We are experiencing teenage pregnancy and the question is, how will a child who is still under the protection/dependent on her parents be able to take care of another person? Her status changed now, she is no longer a child, she is a parent. What about her time of being a kid, she definitely forfeited that moment. This issue also involves the boys; are they ready to be parents too, I don’t think so. Here comes the problem that I have –  this boy is not even in matric how will he support this child? Even if she was impregnated by a sugar daddy those people run away after they hear these stories.

So therefore how will this child grow, grow without a father; yeah I guess that’s how it is.

The moment this girl finds another boyfriend, she will have to tell him about her child and most men will just say okay, I will take you both and treat him as my own. At that moment there is no child of his blood yet.

Can you guess what will happen once he has his own blood?

I’m sure you already have the answer.

The poor child will suffer because now they have one of their own. What will the solution be around this, even the mother at this point has his child? will be the situation of choosing between. I can’t bear the feeling the poor child will be facing, some sometimes go live with their grannies, but what if you don’t have one. What about the hate that will be created between the children? I can’t bear it too: children go through rough patches out there.

#open discussion

Lets help our generation.

Can there be an agreement between the parents?

Should we include legal documents?