My biggest dream is to become a Professional Sexual Therapist or a Sexologist, and also open an Exhibition Of Seashells and an African Medical Center to heal people using plants. I’m still working on achieving all that but under life circumstances, I often experienced life obstacles that held me back from pursuing my goal.

But one thing about me is that I never lost faith and always remained positive that one day I will be able to pursue my dream.

I’m gonna be honest with you, not everyone will support you in your dreams…that’s the reality of life. You know other people used to laugh at me about my career choices, and tend to ask me “Whether do I really like being intimate?”, moreover this urged them to view me in a bad way based on their panoramic view of the choices I made. I should just stop daydreaming because it will never happen. One who lacks knowledge and wisdom would quickly criticize another person about the choices they make, so I don’t blame them at all.

I admit it is a dream and I’m just a few steps away from turning it into reality. I believe that as long as you have the will and courage, you can achieve anything you desire in life. You shouldn’t allow people’s opinions or discourage you or instil their fear in you. The main reason why they will always comment bad it’s because they don’t have the same will as you do instead they want you to follow them. Why be a follower if you can choose to be a leader.

I’ve seen saw many people who give up so easily just for the sake of saving their friendships or following them on the same path. Bear in mind that we were born with different intentions and our destinies are not the same. The same people that you adore the most, I mean your so-called “friends, colleagues, or whatsoever” why don’t they support you in achieving your goals if they really love and care about you. Stop clinging yourself to people, you won’t benefit anything from them.

I might look so beautiful, upright and smart but I know my limits. I don’t befriend anyone just because they look pretty or look innocent while smiling. It’s not that I’m greedy either I have too much pride but why should invite a storm in my life while I can see light where I’m heading to. What I’m telling you is not theory but I’m talking from experience, that’s why I’m passing this advice to you all so that you don’t get deceived by foolish things.

Believe in yourself, trust your capabilities, have faith, and create a resilient mindset of turning a negative into positivity. Knowledge and wisdom doesn’t grow in everybody’s garden. The lessons of life are the only thing that could teach you to be wiser. There’ll be a time when you’ll meet certain people, who would try by all means to guide you and show you the right path, as a way of shielding you not to make the same mistakes that they did before. But the question is ” How will you know if you don’t try?”. I refuse to be instilled by the fear of others. Even if I fail from trying, I will never give up. I will only work harder till I achieve my goals.