Some of us say, “Hide pains with a single smile,” forgetting that you can never hide your feelings. Nor are you just seek attention…it’s just that you don’t know how to ask. I am now asking what’s wrong?
We tend to see ourselves as warriors and soldiers that we are not, pretending to be strong and brave when we need help. Why can’t you ask for help if there’s a need? Why do you have to die when I can help you?
The answer is pride and reputation, followed by dignity! “What will people say?” we ask ourselves. It’s not a matter of what people will say, it is just you refusing to ask for help when I can help you.
We become alone in this world. We become lonely just because we can’t ask for help or a friend to talk to. Talk, I am your friend!
We become lonely and we start listening to songs and quotes that relate to our feelings, forgetting that no matter how hard a song relates to your mood or feelings at that time, it’s not yours. It’s somebody’s else pain and sorrow. Why can’t you just open up?
We end up hurting and killing ourselves just because the pride within us refuses to let go and our hearts become broken into pieces. Some would say there is no God. These words are meant for those who can’t speak for themselves. I am now speaking up for you.
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Tell us: Do you think your pride sometimes prevents you from seeking help?