I have seen a lot of peers of mine getting hurt , heartbroken and losing focus because they thought dating brings happiness in their lives.

Being honest with you guys , I don’t think dating can bring happiness to one’s life, okay, it’s fine I Know some of you will go against what I’m about to say ,but truly speaking even you guys have been there

The first days are like your in honeymoon , when days goes things start to be serious as time goes the relationship seems to fall apart and if you’re not strong enough , you may end up having depression, emotional break down or even worse end up committing suicide

I’m not discouraging mjolo but what I’m trying to say is sometimes it’s not necessary for one to date because their friends are doing so

Literally one can find happiness even if they are not dating and there are a lot of things that can bring happiness in one’s life . Even though we need love in our lives but it doesn’t mean that we have to tolerate being treated badly just because you feel like the person your dating brings happiness in your life .

Hasty decision might destroy what you have been building for so long