In many countries with many cultures we expect the men to behave in a certain way,we think that men are strong but today as a young men i want to tell you the truth about us men.

Men are expected to be the providers , supporters , protectors e.t.c ,I always ask my self as a young men this question ,why do I grow up so fast?
Look what is happening in the world today not only in South Africa,men are working hard to support their families or girlfriends ,you can find a men working for more than 60 hours a week to earn a R3000 per month but when the pay day arrives he will have nothing to show because he will have taken the money to support his family or girl friend ,I don’t say that is not a good thing to support those you love ,it is good but a question is ,me as a men who will support me the way I support them , think about this if your a woman if your boyfriend gives you money to do your hair and to buy clothes so that you can look good , don’t we as men don’t want to look good?

Even if we do how will we do that ,who said we don’t want to be taken out too,who said we don’t want to be spooled too,who said we don’t want to receive too,but who care because if we say it we are told that we are not men enough ,we should men up ,no one cares that why I said “why do I grow fast?” because only my parents cared about me ,they supported me and they have taken care of me always, why is gender based violence increase because we have tried to fight against GBV but it seems we keep on failing.

Maybe is a time for as to ask our selves what really need to be done ?to punish or to fix
, Because emotionally we as men we are broken .

I always give my friends this example”men are strong outside but women are strong inside “for an example if we take a bag of cement (50kg) and give it to both man and woman ,man will win but if you kill a mother of both men and women in front of them , women will cry but men will just stand there with little tears scrolling down claiming that they are strong but when women finishes crying they rise and move on but men will always remember and hold it in their hearts forever

I need you to treat me the way I treat you.
The Bible says “men love and provide for your wives”
But I say women love and provide for your husbands too”
50/50
I saw this post on Facebook saying “If you go out with your woman to a restaurant and she has R500 and you have R1000 the food cost R500,who supposed to pay?”
Just think what people answered ,yes they said men is supposed to pay ,but I gave a different answer and I Said “they both have to pay R250 each,50/50”

Look how your man makes you happy why can’t you do the same by doing what he do to you to him.