I am a church girl and i love the Lord with all my heart. There is a saying that we aren’t allowed to date in church we can only get into a courtship and get married later.

There is a certain guy that stole my heart at church. Well, i wouldn’t exactly say he stole it but i like him a lot. We do chat on WhatsApp and i enjoy his company but he seems to be undecided.

He says he is looking for a wife at church. He flirts with me on WhatsApp and does all those stuff that people do when they like someone. I remember i once asked him if he likes me, he said that i shouldn’t take what happenes on whatsapp seriously. My question is what does he really want?

He is my closest friend at the moment. We do spend time together and the more i see him is the more i fall harder for him. I tried to ignore this feelings but i can’t and i am afraid that if i tell him, it will affect our friendship .

I know we arent allowed to date at church but i desperately want to be with him. I feel like he is not like all the other guys I’ve met before my salvation.