Hey you!

How’s the year going? I like winter but nothing beats a nice summer day but let’s focus on how winter can help us find yourselfs again.

Let’s face it everything in life is changing for most of us and not necessarily in a good way. I want you to look beyond that and be thankful for everyday because you have the ability to live your life to the fullest each and every day.

So 2022 ended on a harsh note for me, I lost my grandmother a few days before Christmas and had to move on without having her in my life, I thought that we could spend one more Christmas together but God had other plans for her. So I was working a lot in that time, barely grieving the passing of my grandmother, I needed to show up at work everyday.

In the beginning of 2023 I promised myself to be happy. I left my job and walked into another. I thought that things would be a bit better for me since I have a new job but I was mistaken. My boss was extremely toxic and a bad person in general. She never cared about her workers and I worked there till the beginning of April and decided to leave that job as well, just before my 20th birthday.

I gave myself some time and stared to enjoy life, I’m still young and there’s so much more that the future has install for me. I created ways to earn money while working for myself and guys society is so messed up just because I’m not working physically they refer to me as ‘lazy’. Even though I’m not physically working I am still making money. The most important thing is that I’m happier than I’ve ever been. If I stayed in that toxic space I would’ve been so depressed.

I’m sharing this with you just to remind you to take it easy on yourself. You will be where you need to be at the right time. Give yourself time to process things. Show up for yourself before you do it for others, you can’t help others if you not helping yourself first.

Do what makes you happy.