My name is Anelisiwe angcobo, born from a small village in the rural areas of Kwazulu Natal. Growing up and being raised from a big family , taught me many lessons about life, it taught me that sharing is caring being born in a huge family where poverty was our main problem

We sometimes would go to sleep, with an empty stomach, arguments sometimes we weren’t a happy family but we were a family were we used to fight on daily basis, Emotionally Abuse because sometimes our relatives would call us evil names which did harm us out, mentally and emotionally

Growing up in such a household is the product of how my life is today, the anger that from an early age we never knew motherly love, from a younger age we never knew fatherly love. When l describe my upbringing l can say that is the result of the stuffuring s we face today

Growing up in a family where we weren’t looked after or cared for is the product of the sufferings we face today. Even told when l look back l can see that l was raised in an abusive household where we had to abide with every rules, we were voicessles, afraid of standing up for the abuse we grown up from that’s why even today

I still have the fear, the fear to raise my voice to speak up that Abuse is ABUSE whether is emotionally, physical or verbal Abuse is ABUSE 😓

I just pray to my Almighty God to grant me the strength to raise my voice,to be able to speak out because as younger ladies we are abused on daily basis but the problem is that we are afraid, afraid to speak Up that’s why we choose to suffer in silence that’s where diseases like depression kick in because when we voice out we become freed from whatsoever burden we may be carrying on our shoulders

Thank you.🥰💞💞