Baby Mama

Author

Nomathamsanqa Madikiza

Publisher

FunDza Literacy Trust

Language

English

Licence

Topics

Reflection Poems Relationship Poems

Baby Mama

Does he love me?
Because he only refers to me as his Baby Mama
Is that all I can be to him?
He tells all the girls that he meets every weekend
that I am his Baby Mama
He saved my number on his phone as Baby Mama,
and I guess that’s all I am to him – his Baby Mama

I love him too much, for him to only see me as a Baby Mama
I know I gave him the most beautiful kids
and am raising them very well
But does he really she me as ONLY Baby Mama?
Am I really being blinded by love?

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11 Responses

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Nalender · 4 years ago

Mmmm am so touched powerful

Sampretty · 4 years ago

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Sisipho Ngcenge · 4 years ago

This is very powerful yet sad truth. We men sometimes mistreat the same black queens who made us kings. Being a father its a blessing.Am a king today because of the queen that gave birth to my prince. Fortunately i have healthier relationship with the Queen who gave me the best gift ever. We not together anymore but we respect the bond hence I still call her Indlovukasi not baby mama.

Shaman Zulu Ndabezitha · 5 years ago

Nice piece 👌 I personal believe it takes a real man to see you as the mother of his child I take the term "Baby mama" as an insult like you are being degraded women are more than just baby mamas we are mother's to these precious babies they are a blessing to us both mother and father, to think that a woman had to put stop into somethings in their lives to focus on growing a baby inside and making sure they have a graceful pregnancy and a healthy baby such big sacrifices and risk they go through including child birth c'mon fellors just because things didn't work out between you two doesn't mean she needs to be called a baby mama !

JustRaye · 5 years ago

True gal , that what they say behind our backs.One day you will be strong enough to leave him and never return and he will regret playing you.

Dmfeka · 5 years ago

This is very touching chom'am. I'm so emotional I don't even know what to say. All I can tell you is please write more. ?

Thabang Gideon · 7 years ago

Even though he is the father of ur kids..why worry about him?...I actually think that the fact that u showing him how Much u love him is actually giving him more power to overpower u and ur feelings and I think u should just try and ignore him for about 2 weeks....then see if he tried to make contact....this could prove to u how he feels about u....?BeStrong??

anisha adams · 7 years ago

Sad poem and sorry for how you feel. But J like it, you taught me something about life.

T.mo Gopane · 7 years ago

It's very nice

Duncan Kandaya · 7 years ago

Depends on what you as baby mama does. A baby mama is someone who cares to much about the father's life and uses the child as a advantage.A mother doesn't care at all.

yas…@gmai... · 7 years ago

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