I was single and searching for true love.I’m so loving,caring and loyal.All i needed was true love nothing more.
Since no one was keeping busy i used to log on my Facebook and spend some time watching people’s pictures, video and funny Posts. I also loved to check my inbox.So one day i got a text from this Guy i opened and checked his profile he looked familiar. I don’t know why i opened his text because i used to avoid everyone in my inbox.I thought maybe God sent this one.
We started chatting and i really enjoyed his company.Everything went so fast we became in love over the phone and i won’t lie that’s was a great feeling.We decided to meet up i told him that we must meet in my room at the back of my house i had an outside building. He came and everything went so cool.
Our Sex was amazing, We had strong feelings for each other.And the love he gave me was amazing not forgetting his attention. I fell so inlove with him.He started posting me on Facebook so everyone knew that we were dating now.
Our third year dating everything changed.He was so obsessed with me. He even checked my phone everytime when we’re together.He started controlling me things went bitter.
He started beating me for no reason and i was so scared now.Mind you my friends kept on asking me “Why are you dating this guy”?…he’s not your type”.But i couldn’t listen because he stole my heart.
So what i did wrong in this relationship was letting him to come visit me at home, that was the stupid thing I’ve ever done and i learnt my lesson.(Never ever bring your boyfriend to come sleep in your house)…
At home i was always with my kid.He knew everything because i let him visit every weekends.I had no friends because he was controlling me.Things really had changed between us that i wasn’t happy anymore.Everytime when he’s drunk he should come even on 01:00am.I told him that he mustn’t do that he must respect my home but he never listened.
I hated him more if his drunk because he always came with stories.He was so jealous on me.I tried to break up with him but he beats me everytime i said that.It wasn’t love anymore he was so obsessed and scary.He always hit me in front of my kid at home.He did it several times.
I was so scared to break up with him because i knew he’ll beat me up.He called one day at 01:00am it was on Saturday and he was drunk.He said he’s coming i told him that he mustn’t come it’s late and I’m in sleeping in big house with my aunt’s and kid.He insisted that he’s coming he kept on calling but i avoided his calls because it was late and i was feeling sleepy.
02:15am i heard a knock straight in my home door.”knock knock ” my heart started beating so fast i was scared of him especially when he’s drunk.I didn’t opened he started banging the door and kicking it.I was sleeping with my kid my aunt’s were sleeping together in the bedroom …We all wake up and i open the door…..I nearly died in that moment he started beating so hard in from of my kid and aunt’s. I cried for help but no one came even my aunt’s were scared of him, he broke the sofas at home kicking me and punching me he wanted to take me outside but i fought back tried so hard not to go outside because i was gonna die.
My aunt’s shouted at him, my son crying on the other side and i was so weak nearly fainted he went away.I took pictures and sent them to his family it was critical i couldn’t even face the lighting my eyes were bad.I was so traumatized and scared my life was miserable.I thought he’ll kill me and i was so tired of him.After 4 or 5 days i went to court for a protecting order.They gave me a date i told him and we waited for a date and went to court.
They read everthing to him and told him to back off otherwise they’ll arrest him.He said owky after that we went away.After couple of weeks he saw me at party i was with my friends,He started swearing at me and beating me he was drunk.He stole my bag with my cards and phone inside.
“I was scared to lock him up because i thought maybe if he comes out he’ll kill me.”
I went to the police and told them everything we went straight to him at work they spoke with him and he said he’ll pay my things but he didn’t. So since then he forgot about me he never troubled me again because i told him straight that I’m giving him a last chance and the way i spoke he saw my true colours that day because i was so angry at him and i hated him with all my heart ,i was tired of him.