Every human is subject to two loves, which one of the two is the one that you need and the other is the one you need, getting to choose between the two is dangerous in a manner that everyone has a disadvantage, if you choose the one you need you are neglecting your wants if you choose the one you want you are neglecting your needs.
The one love you need is the one that you may find that the person that you know loves you wholly hearty and is willing to do anything for you is not the one you love. The love you want you want is being interested in some one that is not in love with you, but you don’t take that fact into consideration because you the one that loves the person.
What is rare is the combination of the both the love you need and the love you want , which is what gives you true love.