Even when masturbation seems to be safe, healthy, and reduces risk of being diagnosed with sexual infections; it comprises a lot of side effects that may be temporal or permanent. But there is nothing to be scared of, you just have to familiarize yourself with the following side effects:
The first aspect that we can focus on is a spiritual wife; even though it can sounds like a belief, masturbation can brings you a spiritual wife that will block happiness between you and your love partner, this can include having a low sex drive or having less interest on your girlfriend. This problem doesn’t seems to affect all men who masturbate, so this is how you can know if you have it or not: You may have sex or relationships in your dreams, or any terrible dreams related to that. But it’s unfortunate that you can have spiritual wife or spritual husband without masturbating. This aspect can be temporal or permanent, it depends on how you deal with it. Some men consult traditional healers and some prefers to have prayer sessions until it’s believed that the spiritual wife is gone. Except for having a spritual wife or spritual husband, satisfying yourself on its own can reduce interest in having sex.
Another aspect is mental health. I asssume there are accurate internet sources that implies that masturbation is healthy for mental and physical health. But some men happen to be affected mentally. In this context when we talk about mental problems we are not referring to madness or psychological problems. We are just referring to adaption to something that it’s not usual. Some men start seeing things differently, develop having a desire of being alone and satisfy themselves – Women who masturbate can have the same feeling, and there more they masturbate it’s the more they start feeling like they can satisfy themselves more than men can. There are plenty of women who prefers using toys or cucumber over associating with men. And some girls even prefer helping each other, and sometimes it leads to relationships, but there is no full proof that. And so far it looks like there is no one who can be affected in mind permanently by masturbation, the moment you stop doing it; your mind can simply adapt to new_you. But women who uses toys seem to find it so hard to stop using them, so you better not try it out if you don’t trust yourself.
Men who watch porn when they are masturbating can prolong their mental problems if they do that frequently. Let’s delve into some relevant examples to make this more understandable: Imaginations about the trip you will take to Johannesburg may be more fascinating than the real trip to Johannesburg. This is because in the mind world you get to control everything and make it happens exactly the way you want it.
It’s the same when you masturbate, you are able to sleep with anyone you want and able to create a size you prefers, and everything happens exactly the way you want it. And you even sleep with plenty of girls in a single minute or single round. But the real life sex won’t give you all of that, and that’s you’d prefer masturbating over having sex.
However, masturbation is a safe erotic activity when you doesn’t do it frequently. Don’t let yourself be addicted to it. It can be advisable to stay away from it if possible.