Baby girl, hear me out. People pleasing is a big no. I don`t care what the circumstances are. I don`t care how good it feels to have their respect and be adored by them, you should not be going against your values to impress them. Now, I’m not saying go out and about being reckless and treating people in whatever way or behaving in an unruly manner. What I’m saying is trust your intuition. If something is wrong, stand up against it. If you’re not happy about something, stand up for yourself. Whether you get called negative derogatory terms or not, that’s okay. You cannot live an uncomfortable life to satisfy other people’s ego. You cannot allow people to be the reason you live a miserable life. You don’t deserve such and nobody ever deserves such. You cannot cry yourself to sleep every night over a single human.

If someone ever tries provoking, insulting or harassing you in ways that mess with your mental, physical, psychological health or cause harm or potential harm in any way, do not be afraid to report to close ones and if required, go as far as involving law. Stop feeling sorry for such perpetrators. They don’t care about you. Therefore, you cannot be blamed in any way for their unethical behaviour towards you. You have rights and they need to be respected as you respect theirs as well. I know it seems harsh, but it’s life. If you don’t stand for yourself, you will have an unnecessary difficult journey.