We all live our lives for different reasons: money, parents, where we’re are and what we have, what we have and where we’re going. It’s normal and there is nothing wrong with that. Sometimes we feel trapped and think that our breakthrough will never come, but it does at the right time. We just need to pray and have faith then things will work out.

We all want to achieve certain things: drive our own cars, have a wardrobe full of fashionable clothes, etc. All those things demand hard work and patience which all come with time. It’s normal to be impatient. I mean, who doesn’t want to achieve everything quickly, make things happen very fast and start living their lives?

That is all part of nature. If you’re able to use your goals to motive you and take you somewhere all that you desire and want will happen for you. Being patient is not a good thing sometimes. We should take things slowly so that we are not confused when what we want does eventually happen.

If things are made and meant for you, there should be no reason for you to force them and try so hard. But if they are not, you just won’t achieve them in the way you want to. This type of thing goes hand-in-hand with instinct. As much as you’re able to feel as a person, you should trust your instincts as well.

Each and everything in life has it’s time. It’s even written in the Bible to show that as a human being, you should know it, respect it and feel it. That way, you will know when the right time for the things you want will be. It’s the same as when you’ve been hurt, you need time to grieve and heal to know what the next step is. You’ll grow, change and learn. You’ll also know what is really important to you. Time plays an important role in our lives and we should take it as an important thing.

As people, we have different beliefs and religions. For instance I’m a Christian. I believe in God and I believe in other spiritual beliefs, but amongst that God comes first. I don’t mean to discriminate against you, I want you to know that wherever you intend on doing and achieving in life, always tell God and put Him in first. Interact with God and you’ll achieve what you’re longing to achieve. In whatever I do and want, I depend on God to choose the right and safe things for me. Because no matter how far you want to go, sometimes things that are bad can see good as well. I pray to God to see the truth before I jump into anything, I can’t afford to be naïve.

I believe that you too cannot afford to be naieve. We all want honest things, things that are true and real. We can see where we’re heading. So, praying doesn’t only make things come true, but it helps us as well. God will always give you the right things and the the things He knows are meant for you. In the process, never doubt, but listen to Him because, He’s the one that we all lean on and who can help us.

Letting go is one of the hardest thing anybody can ever do. It always depends on what you’re letting go of and why. Things like relationships, bonds, friendships, work things etc. We become so hungry and attached to the things that we want so badly yet, we don’t get them. Our hearts get trapped and folded, we cry, we yell, we don’t eat and we experience restless nights.

Words of encouragement still don’t get to us and we feel like giving up because we’re very impatient, heartbroken and believe that no one can feel our pain or the situation. It’s better to let things go and let them solve themselves out.

Take employment, you email your CV, you wait for an interview or phone call, you attend the interview and then you get hired. It is custom to celebrate a new job so, you call your friends and tell them about it hoping that they’ll be happy and encourage you. Things work themselves out.

In my experience, there is nothing wrong with confronting and telling God about everything and asking Him for advice. He will speak right through you. Be strong, be positive and always have hope and pray for the best.

I wish you all the best and may your problems and challenges that you think you can’t solve lead you to two options: doing something about them or letting them be and hope that they’ll resolve themselves.

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