Get over him; he’s not even worth it. He’s not worth your time or your tears. Yah you loved him, I know that and I know you can’t just see yourself with anyone other than him. I get that. But why should you spend all your time sitting at home bawling your eyes out, wondering where he is, what he’s doing or who he’s with? Do you honestly think he’s thinking about you? No.

Sure it hurts, the fact that he’s out there falling in and out of love with other girls. Yah you’re gonna see him with one of his new girlfriends. Prepare yourself cause straight up it’s gonna hurt. He will hold her a little closer and squeeze her a little tighter just because he knows you’re watching. He knows it’s killing you, that’s why he’ll do it. Don’t let him get to you because that’s exactly what he wants. Don’t give him what he wants, he doesn’t even deserve it.

So what if he doesn’t talk to you? Do you honestly wanna be friends with an idiotic fool like him? The thing is I know you do but give it time. All he will do is talk about his new girl and try to make you jealous. Do you really wanna hear that? No. Fuck him and his girlfriend. He will be sorry, trust vir Bakr.

When he finally sees you with that other bruh that’s not him, with that huge smile on your face and your boyfriend holding you close, he will realise how happy you are now and how happy your boyfriend is because he has you, the girl of his dreams. He will realise the mistake he made when he let you go, when he decided to choose her over you, when he decided he did not love you the same. Trust vir Bakr, he will be sorry.

And don’t just sit there thinking he won’t be sorry. I know you are. But I guarantee you now he will be sorry. So don’t go on spending your nights waiting for that one phone call you know you’re never gonna get. Or that pm you know he’ll never send simply because he likes to ignore you. He likes to pretend he doesn’t see you online. He does it on purpose because he knows it’s killing you.

One day when he walks past you he is just going to look past you. But you need to know he’s doing that cause he knows somewhere inside you it will hurt. I’m not gonna lie to you it will hurt. It will hurt a lot and you know what, today, tomorrow, next week, months from now, your phone will go off and you will instantly grab it hoping it’s him saying he wants to give your relationship another chance. But trust vir Bakr, he’s got too much pride.

Even if he wanted to get back with you he wouldn’t tell you. You’re soon gonna realise that he doesn’t care about you anymore and he won’t be the first person you call when you’re upset. He won’t be the one to put that smile back on your face. And it’s gonna hurt, a lot. But you know what you’re gonna do? You’re gonna hold your head up. You’re gonna show him you’re better than him and you don’t need him in your life. You’re gonna prove to him that he made the biggest mistake of his life letting you go and that you never really needed him anyways.

Tell us: Do you have an ex that you can’t forget?