As we live here on earth, I can tell you that there is no one who aims for bad days in his or her life. There is no one who wishes to be crying from the problems that keep on dancing in our lives like an isiXhosa woman. There is no one who is still alive and working hard to experience painful situation in his or her life. We all aim for happiness. If you are a student, you aim for good grades and make your parents proud. If you are a graduate you hope for a better job in your life for you to be happy. If you are in a relationship with someone else, you even expect plenty of joy, no one exist in a relationship to be sad. If you are in a family, you expect to be living lovely and not with sombre tears all in your face. If you have friends, you aim to be chilling with them happily and if you are working, you aim to be working peacefully with your co-workers.

Here is a thing, sometimes, for you to be happy in your life, you have to go through some trials, challenges, failures and even disappointments. You can even agree with me that you passed through bad days to experience this happiness and joyful life. You had to struggle with your education for you to get that degree or certificate that you’ve. All of these happen in our lives just to teach us things about life that there is no sweet without sweat in life.

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