How do I forgive?

How do I forgive him and move on?

If only I knew loving him was a crime I would have saved myself

He lied to me and I was blind to notice that.

He never mentioned his family (wife & kids).

He was always there for me, doing everything I needed, he played his cards very well.

If I were to award a good liar he will have scored himself a trophy

I believed him when saying he love me and give him my virginity

Here I am facing parenting alone and having no1 to help me financially

All those I used to eat my money with them, they now bad mouth me forgetting that I used to buy groceries for their families including cosmetic

He didn’t just give me a child he left me with HIV

It’s not easy to forgive him or forgive myself.

2 Responses

Life is full of lessons, we learnt by hard or better way sometimes but that does not mean should put a heavy load on ourselves. Let's just call it a lesson and move on with life, I am 100% sure that you're not the first to face such situation and not the last as well. Just be strong for you baby, I wish you all the best.

Luyanda Vundla · 2 years ago

Don't blame yourself. Lean on God. He will provides a way for u. As as for him. Mofe Modimo, coz he did everything intensionally.

Mmantshadi Mashabela · 2 years ago