In South Africa when a man loves a woman he goes the extra mile to show that she is a chosen one.

It starts from dating, he pays for drinks, ice cream, and snacks on their first date. He continuously bought her gifts and gave her a little cash as well to fix her hair.

From there on he proposes and sends his uncle for lobola negotiation to pay her price. Family and relatives got invitations for marriage. The couple goes up and down doing decorations, catering quotations, and cows’ quotations to be slaughtered on the ceremony day.

All the above mentioned shows the love of a man loving his women. The estimated costs go up to R150000 plus.

Why is it so easy to cheat?

In all the preparations you were there, you had an opportunity to change your mind. You let your parents spend the lobola money in preparations of your ceremony, you let them slaughter and sell cows but you knew you don’t like the guy.

What do you expect him to react when you took all his savings? How are you planning to pay his R150000 plus? Watch out for the ending of your movie.

If you are married respect the cows and the person that chose you.