It doesn’t matter what you do. People will always talk. They’ll still have something to say about you, good or bad. When you are too fat, they’ll have a problem with it and say that you shouldn’t eat so much. When you are too thin, they’ll say that you are sick. Or that you should start to eat. Even the smallest kid looks more significant than you. If you are dating, they’ll have a problem with it. They’ll also have a problem with who you are dating. If you are a player, they’ll say it’s high time for you to grow up and settle down.

When you are married, they’ll say that you have changed now that you don’t even spend time with them anymore like you used to. If you don’t date, they’ll say something is wrong with you or “jy is nou te hoog bekeer”. If you go out clubbing, they’ll say that you need help. If you don’t go clubbing, they’ll say you are boring.

If you have one kid, they’ll say that you must make a plan cause the child needs a friend. If you have no kids, they’ll say that you must make a plan or is there something wrong with you? If you have more than one kid, they’ll tell you should slow down. Do you think these are getting out of fashion? Or nay, they’ll go on like that cause they want the government’s money cause it’s too lovely.

We live in a world where people accept the wrong thing and make it look right. They’ll want you to stay in a relationship even when you are unhappy. A world where a forced relationship/marriage is better than being alone or a single parent. A world where the victim gets blamed for everything. Forget about the people and do what makes you happy. Live your life to the fullest. Let them talk.