In this life, there are people who will discourage you. Whatever you do is not good enough in their eyes. There are people who will never help you out when you need even a little bit of help. There are those who will never congratulate you when you achieved something. There are those who will always look down on you, thinking they are better than you. There are these kinds of people who will always be jealous even if you have nothing, they just hate you. There are these kinds who always want to bring you down, they just don’t want to see you happy at all. There are people who will always gossip about you every chance that they get. There are people who will always spread rumours about you. There are people who hate each other, but because of you, they unite to destroy you. There are people who want to be with you because you have something that benefits them. Once you lose that thing, you will never see them in your life. There are also people who you will help but they will never return the favour. They just receive and receive, they never give.
Life is full of challenges actually, but not all people are like this. You just have to check your circle of people who surround you every day of life. Even the most trusted people in your life can still betray you. Even family members can still betray each other. The only person to trust is yourself. Also, you need to check what kind of people you rely on when you have problems. Not all people listen to your problems to help. Others just want to laugh at you and gossip about you. People will always talk about whether you do good or not.
There are those who will always point out your mistakes and remind you of them every chance they get. It is useless to point out someone’s mistakes. If you are not going to help them rectify those mistakes. Instead of pointing out those mistakes in a good way, they embarrass the other person. First of all, you should ask if you can point out the mistakes. Then help them to do better. Don’t discourage people with what they believe in. It is up to them to accept your help or decline it. Let us be good people who encourage each other, not destroy someone’s self-esteem.
We may be living the same life, but our journey is different. We go through different paths and experiences. But the point is we are all in a race. Other people’s race is easy, while others are difficult. You don’t know the struggles other people go through each and everyday. But the fact that they are trying, means so much.
I salute you all.