I tried to be independent
But I found “male” in “female”
I found “man” in “woman”
I am the queen of her own cattle
But I am seen as dangling tassels
And no matter the struggle,
I will always hustle.
You might be called head of the house,
But I say I am the neck
I give you direction
Without my effort you can never move
You might want to face the skies with pride,
But I have the power
To make you face the ground with shame.
So now listen,
Can I be free from your hot slaps
For I am not your drum.
Can I be free from your stony fists
For I am not your punching bag.
Can I be free from your rough kicks
For I am not your football.
When I cry,
You see my tears as a beautiful waterfall
When I scream,
You hear my voice as a melodious song
When I bleed,
You see my blood as a festive wine.
What’s wrong with respecting,
What’s hard about caring,
What’s impossible about loving,
What’s challenging about being a good man.
Because I know you can be?
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