You are beautiful and unique
Different in your own way
You definitely don’t need a man
To make you feel good about yourself
My beautiful woman, why are you allowing this man
To use you as his punching bag
Why are you allowing him to control your life?
Do you think you will ever be good enough for him?
How long are you willing to sacrifice your own happiness
Just so you make him happy
Beautiful woman I think now it’s time for you to take a stand
Stand your ground
Let him know that now you are in charge of your precious life and happiness
Let him know you can live without being under the shadow of a man
My beautiful woman, do you think he loves you?
Is love enough for you to endure so much
From a man who you claim loves you
Love doesn’t only mean that you need to get
Insulted, belittled, destroyed and humiliated
Love does not mean you need to be
His punching bag whenever things aren’t going well for him
Why are you letting this man have all control over life?
Why?
Is it all because of what? LOVE!
No! that is not LOVE
That’s really not love
Let me tell you what LOVE is
LOVE IS PATIENT AND KIND
LOVE IS NOT PROUD NOR SELF-SEEKING
IT IS NOT RUDE
LOVE ALWAYS PROTECTS, IT ALWAYS TRUSTS
LOVE NEVER FAILS
But for sure his love for you failed a long time ago.
When will you realise that he doesn’t love you.
If he doesn’t treat you right, that simply means
He does not love you
If he doesn’t appreciate your presence in his life
Clearly it means he doesn’t value you.
If he always finds pleasure in hurting you
It simply means that he is not worthy of your LOVE
How long are you willing to stand and endure being insulted
Being used as his punching bag
Are you willing to let this man destroy the person
That you were before you first met him?
Stop telling yourself you can fix him
Because he clearly knows that how he treats you, it is not pleasing
And it is not ok
You cannot do anything to fix this man
You cannot save someone by sacrificing yourself
He has already destroyed your self-worth
He’s robbed you of your own identity
Robbed you of your happiness
My beautiful woman this man doesn’t love you but he is only using you
Save yourself while you still can
Leave now for there is no excuse for being abused