I love with my heart and soul. I was too in love, thinking that he loved me too but he didn’t. I love hard, that why I get hurt easily. My mom told me that boys are all the same, they only come into our lives to destroy us. I never believed her. After what I have been through I wish I had listened to her – love is pain.

I was in love with a guy called Thomas. I really loved him with my heart and soul. I thought he loved me too, but he loved his career and cared about nothing else but his reputation. It’s funny how the same guy who said sweet thing to you will also be the one to say mean things. I loved him and whenever I tried to ask something about his life he said, “You are too judgemental and protective.”

It’s really hurtful when you want the best for someone and they don’t like it. We all want the best for our loved ones. I thought he loved me only to find that that he loved his career. I was in pain and am still in pain. The people we love the most are the ones that hurt us most. I can’t believe that all he cares about is money, he never cared about my happiness.

It’s hard to move on when you still want to try. It’s hard to give up when you are forced to give up. I really hate myself for loving so hard. Now I will never date again. I am tired of crying and trying. I am tired of loving and not being loved back. I am tired of getting into trouble and lying for someone I love, only to find out that they don’t want me. My life will never be the same without him. But I know that one day I’ll find someone better than him and for now I need to be patient.

Girls please don’t love with all your heart, because you will get hurt. Boys are good at saying sweet words, but they don’t mean it. They only care about what they want, not what you want. Don’t let them get away with your happiness. Show them that you are strong. Begging is not good, the more you beg it’s like you’re forcing them. Just learn to let go. It’s for the best.

Tell us: do you think love should cause such pain?