It’s weird how you can get close to someone you never even noticed before, but let me start from the beginning.

Megan had a crush on this boy she thought was cute, and, whenever her friends asked her what it was that she saw in him, she never had a proper answer for them. When he would come to her class, she would pretend to be the baddest bitch of them all. That was until she wasted a R2 on him. She was deeply crushing on him, but she realised that she only crushed on him because she wanted a bit of spice in her life.

So, she practically chased him for fun, and, when she got tired of playing games, she tried getting over him. A year went by and nothing actually happened. It was just another normal high school year with no crushes or boyfriends. Then Megan’s friend developed feelings for her, and they started dating. But then two months went by in which they were never together. There was no hugging or kissing, and most people said that it couldn’t be a relationship if there was no actual contact.

But Megan felt that her life was going as planned, even though she had someone whom she didn’t have that zing with.

Trying to make others happy can sometimes be too much. We all have moments when we get frustrated with everyone and everything around us, but when you get frustrated like that, sometimes you cannot control yourself. You might kill the first person next to you, like how you might get into fight with your siblings. Which is why its important to control yourself.

Tell us: Was have you learnt from Megan?